Emily Post's Wedding Etiquette, 6e by Anna Post & Lizzie Post

Author:Anna Post & Lizzie Post
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: HarperCollins

Honoring the Deceased

It is very appropriate to honor deceased family members, either privately or publicly, at a wedding ceremony. It’s important to let the remembrance be a part of, but not overshadow, the happy event you and your families are celebrating.

If you decide to include a tribute in your ceremony, be sure that it is neither morbid nor lengthy. A simple declaration of love, a moment of silence, or the lighting of a candle may be the most eloquent commemoration. A large photo of the deceased by the altar or a long speech will quickly turn a wedding into a memorial. The program is always a good place to write a short piece or dedicate a poem in honor of the deceased, or to explain any symbolic remembrances: “The flowers on the altar are in honor of Justin.” Sometimes couples make their memorials private by offering a silent prayer, wearing something that belonged to the person who has died, or laying a bouquet of flowers on the front pew or by the altar.

HONORING FRIENDS AND FAMILY

Not everyone can be in your bridal party, and you may have more family or friends than there is room for at the altar. Consider asking them to be ushers, give a reading, or if they have musical talent, perform as a soloist.

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