Truth Undressed (Exposed Series, #3) by Kelly Hazel

Author:Kelly, Hazel [Kelly, Hazel]
Language: eng
Format: epub, azw3
Published: 2014-10-21T16:00:00+00:00

Chapter 14: Dawn

Lover #5: The Less Experienced Lover

It is inevitable in any sexually active woman’s life that she will come across someone who has less experience than she does. And while she might not have the opportunity to learn new things in this situation, being the more experienced lover is still a position of great responsibility.

I took a guy’s virginity once. He was an old friend and a colleague, and after a few drinks one thing led to another. He was also an athlete and in excellent shape. So I let him do most of the work, though I like to think I made it worth his while.

The rug burns on his knees the next day were the stuff of legend, or at least, the stuff of a pretty amusing inside joke between the two of us.

Obviously, a woman with my extensive experience has had the upper hand on more than one occasion. However, in times like these, it is important to consider what it’s like to be the more nervous party and make the other person comfortable.

For example, fast and furious isn’t an appropriate sexual setting in this case. Plus, chances are that the other person will remember every last detail more vividly and for much longer than you will. So take your time. Make it special for them. Maybe even try and teach them something new like your previous sexual partners so kindly did with you.

But I’d also like to include a warning here. Not all men enjoy sex recreationally. In order to be a sexually responsible woman, you must not use your powers for evil.

For example, you will only regret seducing someone who has strong feelings for you that you can’t reciprocate. It’s wrong to lead people on and give them false hope whether the circumstances are sexual or otherwise. Most women I’ve known who have close male friends have at least two that would sleep with them given the chance. And not only would they sleep with them, but these friends often harbor feelings that go way beyond that.

And just like you wouldn’t want someone to play around with your feelings and use you as a means to an end, don’t do it to others. Mutual play is fine. Objectification is not.

So figure out who’s “off limits” based on this criteria and respect that.

Then, while you’re at it, take a moment to think about which of your male friends are the type that lose all respect for women after they hook up with them, and do yourself a favor. Vow never to fool around with them either. Because it will mess up your friendship. Trust me. I learned this the hard way. More than once.

Anyway, when taking on a less experienced partner, just follow the Golden Rule. Because people are delicate, especially when they’re naked and vulnerable. And no matter how shocked you might be to discover that someone has less experience than you, cultivate a default reaction of compassion and understanding.

And for the love of god, never laugh at a man when he’s naked whether he’s just baring his soul or a whole lot more.

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