The Business of Honor by Bob Hasson

Author:Bob Hasson [Bob Hasson]
Language: eng
Format: epub
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Published: 2017-11-14T05:00:00+00:00

THREE BEHAVIORAL PRIORITIES AND THREE EFFECTS

The definitions of safety, trust, and connection quoted above provide us with some initial lists of behaviors and effects that make up the experience of connection. In the behavior category, we see things like interpersonal risk-taking, being oneself, speaking up, giving and receiving, and being vulnerable. In the effects category, we see safety, confidence, trust, respect, comfort, support, sustenance, and acceptance. The definitions also mention some of the things we don’t experience in a healthy connection, which are just as important: criticism, embarrassment (shame), rejection, punishment, and judgment. It’s important to understand each of these areas so we can be clear on just what it takes to invest in people relationally and build healthy connections.

At the most basic level, connection is built through three sets of behavioral dynamics:

1. the way we show who we are to other people,

2. the way other people respond when we show them who we are, and

3. the way we respond to other people showing us who they are.

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