In Defense of Love by Ron Rosenbaum;
Author:Ron Rosenbaum; [Rosenbaum, Ron]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Penguin Random House LLC
Published: 2023-08-15T00:00:00+00:00
Is She Guilty?
Murdered
Long Since Murdered
Gradual Murder
How She Was Murdered
How Husbands Murder Their Wives
One More Murdered Woman [or Wife]
Ultimately she chose a somewhat graceless alternative: Whose Fault?
So now, more than a century after Kreutzerâs 1889 publication, Tolstoyâs wife gets to have her say. It will take years to assimilate all the variations in Katzâs translation of Tolstoy family responses, but I want to focus on the single most impressive thing I found on my first reading: Sofiya Tolstoy can write! Iâm still puzzled by the Times storyâs somewhat cavalier unwillingness to consider her novellaâs literary merit and even more by the subheadâs sexist characterization of her work as nothing but âa scorned wifeâs rebuttal.â So condescending and so oblivious to the novellaâs own remarkable transcendence of mere scorned-wife revenge novel genre. In fact, I think itâs more than just good. It is a superb compact nineteenth-century novel of marriage and fantasied adultery. A Russian Madame Bovary. At times one could almost say sheâsâ¦Tolstoyan. And when it comes to love and sex, she shows her fictional husband up for the demented fool he became.
Specifically, Sofiya pulls off a remarkable structural feat in mirroring Kreutzerâs wife-murder plot from the point of view of the murdered wife. And she does it with prose that (in English at least) comes across as graceful, emotionally intuitive, and heartbreaking.
Thematically, she counters her husbandâs rage against sex and love with what is, cumulatively, a deeply affecting defense of love. Akin to Sir Philip Sydneyâs defense of poetry. A portrait of love from a womanâs point of view unlike any you can find (or I have found) in Tolstoy.
Sofiya accomplishes something different in her novella, which, despite its defensive title, offers more than a he-said, she-said document. Instead, Countess Tolstoy counterpoises her husbandâs mad denunciation of sex with a skillfully evoked account of the evolution of love. Love in all its facets, from the sexual to the familial to the fantasized adulterous. Love, in all its contradictory complexities and unresolvable mysteries, from a womanâs point of view. From inside a womanâs mind and heart, with a subtlety that makes her husband, Lev Nikolaevitch (at least in his late work), look like a blockhead. I donât take any pleasure in saying this: I found it painful almost to write as I did for Slate a dissection of him as portrayed in Sofiyaâs novella.
In the novella Sofiya gives us a touching portrait of a tender, hopeful young girl, Anna (not an accidentally chosen name), at first finding herself falling under the spell of an older man, an elegant-looking local landowner, a count like the one who became Sofiyaâs husband. Heâs not a successful writer, but he does seem to pen boring polemics she canât really respect. He holds strong convictions, especially about sex and marriage. Heâs very similar to the crank Sofiyaâs husband became in his dotageâand almost identical in his opinions to the wife-murderer in Kreutzer. They are the opinions of an ignorant male presuming to be sophisticated about sex.
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