Understanding Body Language: How to Decode Nonverbal Communication in Life, Love, and Work by Rouse Scott

Author:Rouse, Scott [Rouse, Scott]
Language: eng
Format: epub, pdf
Publisher: Rockridge Press
Published: 2020-12-22T16:00:00+00:00

03: BEDROOM EYES

When it comes to dating and romance, the eyes are infamous. Crooners sing about them in love songs, poets write about them in sonnets, and they are often the most mysterious highlight of an artist’s painting.

When you hear the term “Bedroom Eyes,” it’s being used in a specific context, usually a sexual context. It refers to a specific look some women try to recreate with makeup to help mimic the look of a woman’s eyes when she is sexually aroused. When the eyes are nearly half closed or heavy lidded and the pupils are also dilated, that is Bedroom Eyes. That is what you’re seeing in the example.

Research tells us that when the same makeup styling that creates Bedroom Eyes for women is instead used on a man, the result looks so odd and out of character for what men’s eyes look like during sexual arousal that women find this very unattractive and somewhat scary. If you’re trying to decide if your date finds you attractive or not, take a closer look at their eyes.

04: FLUSHED CHEEKS

Cartoonists and digital artists are some of the best readers of body language and nonverbal cues on the planet. Why are they so good at translating human behavior into drawings? Because when they’re not drawing, they’re watching the way people behave in every situation you can possibly imagine. They are literally studying the body language of everyday people. They’re experts.

For example, when you’re watching a cartoon and you see the girl mouse meet the boy mouse for the first time, there are several things you can tell me right now that are about to happen. The first thing she’s going to do is start batting her eyes. After that? She’ll clasp her fingers together and push her wrists and palms outward and down a little bit. And after that? Her head will tilt to the side. Last but not least, her cheeks will blush.

Blushing cheeks denote embarrassment and sometimes anger. They can also indicate sexual arousal and attraction. When you see this on your date’s face and cheeks, things are going really well.

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