PLANET HURT VOLUME ONE: The Idea & The Process by Gaynor Patrick 'Curly Loxx'

Author:Gaynor, Patrick 'Curly Loxx'
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Zion Way Publishing
Published: 2021-01-10T16:00:00+00:00

Chapter 10

Seeing Other People

Ibelieve that in order to love and be truly content we must possess two traits – humility and simplicity. Most people are not simple because they’re not humble. They’re not humble because based on their belief system it’s not so simple to be humble. This again is because their belief system is built on ideas of everything while instructing them to reject the processes vital to achieving these things in practical reality.

Our belief system, and the external things it causes us to attach our values to and depend on for happiness, is detrimental to genuine contentment. Because our beliefs are formed from way less than half-truths, we make choices that keep leading to the unhappiness we think is caused by other people, when the problem is our way of seeing things.

The tower of label is everywhere. No area of our lives escapes its long shadow. It creates the psychological subconscious habits that we can’t see with the naked eye but that we organize our entire lives around. These habits are at the root of all choices we make – including our choice of wives, husbands, partners for affairs, business partners, ‘team’ members, jobs, homes, and just about everything else that results in the conflicts we often encounter and find difficult to get over. It is why we end up with partners – business and otherwise – that we have nothing in common with. In marriage, business, friendships, and other relationships, we choose people based on the labels we apply to them, placing them in particular categories and making assumptions about who they are based on these labels and assumptions. All our desires are centered around this habit. We fall hopelessly both in and out of love with things and people because of it.

Because our desires are designed by half stories that give us only an idea of the things and people we face, we are drawn into love by what we often don’t realize is a fraction of a fraction of the entire process of what love truly is. We fail to recognize the tolerance required to truly love another human. This psychological deficiency of oversimplifying everything is made worse by the fact that the media exploits this by further oversimplifying everything and turning them into short unrealistic stories void of the details. They sell us this abbreviated version through the same methods, further distorting our understanding of everything.

The movie with the man walking away from the wrong girl at the altar to go after the right one leaving on the train is one we’ve all seen. The repetition of this narrative inspires actions that pull us further away from objective reality when we seek intimate partnership. Our imagination becomes our worst enemy as we go through life imagining everything and forming opinions from way less than half-truths and expecting them to be just as we imagined. Love – a willingness to suffer for that which you love – suffers dreadfully from this deficiency, as understanding its true definition is essential to survive the suffering that all relationships will inevitably bring.

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