Manhood: The Bare Reality by Laura Dodsworth

Author:Laura Dodsworth [Dodsworth, Laura]
Language: eng
Format: azw3, epub, mobi
Publisher: Pinter & Martin
Published: 2017-06-14T16:00:00+00:00

“I drank too much”

I like my penis, it’s alright. I’ve had people comment on it and say it’s a nice-looking penis. I have a very decent sized penis, it’s a grower not a shower.

A lot of my friends growing up were women. Most of them preferred oral sex and said penetrative sex is not the be all and end all. Size doesn’t need to define you, if you know what you’re doing in bed – talk to your partner, and often they might prefer oral sex, then you’re alright regardless of size. You can be lazier I guess if the woman prefers penetrative sex. (laughs) But there’s something really nice about doing something that doesn’t give you sexual gratification. I wouldn’t say it’s a sacrifice, but it certainly shows you’re willing to put effort in. Whatever you do is fine if you both leave that time feeling connected and you’ve enjoyed it.

My first sexual experience was awful. I was so drunk at a house party, this girl was on top of me and I just remember really needing the loo. (laughs) After a while – oh it was awful – I just pushed her off. Because I didn’t have the confidence to say, ‘I’m not going to be able to really enjoy this because I could do with urinating right now.’ Awful.

I’ve had about 30 sexual partners. Women vary a great deal in size. I’ve had partners for whom certain positions are just a straight up no; it would be too deep and uncomfortable. And other partners where any position is fine, there’s no position that is too deep and uncomfortable. I had one partner who was very tight and it took a few weeks of other things before penetrative sex could happen. Then on the other hand… I don’t know how much I want to say. I’ve had partners who I can have penetrative sex with and insert a dildo in the vagina at the same time as my penis.

I was in the Territorial Army for a bit and that had a really big drinking culture. Even when you’d done really vigorous activity during the day and your body needed to recover and you needed sleep, it was seen as a given that you should go to the bar and have a few beers before you went to bed. Socialising, being part of the group, camaraderie and stuff.

At university it was similar. Dirty pints were a thing, a little bit of everyone’s drink around the table mixed into one pint cup. Wine, vodka, coke, beer, cider, they all just get mixed together and downed. It tastes pretty grim. You sing a song as someone downs it: ‘We like to drink with [name of the person] because [name of person] is our mate. And when we drink with [name of person] they down it all in eight, seven, six, five, four, three, two, one.’ And you’ve got to down it before the song finishes. It’s a peer pressure thing. I certainly used to do it at 18 and 19, but by 21 I was like, ‘I don’t care.

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