How to Get Married by The School Of Life

How to Get Married by The School Of Life

Author:The School Of Life
Language: eng
Format: mobi, epub, pdf
ISBN: 9781999747114
Publisher: School of Life Press
Published: 2019-05-07T05:00:00+00:00


And ‘good enough’, strangely, is even better than ‘perfect’, because a child will need to live the rest of their lives in a very imperfect world. It is good for them to get used to the idea of error early on. The good enough parent is at times irate, stupid, a bit unfair, rather tired and a touch depressed. And in so being, they are doing something truly valuable for the child: preparing them for reality.

iv. Being entirely honest

For years, you felt burdened with thoughts, feelings and opinions that didn’t seem to make much sense to anyone else. There were people you didn’t like, but everyone else seemed to think they were terrific, so you held your tongue. There were things you would have liked to try in bed, but they felt shameful and you kept quiet about them. You learnt to have secrets in order to be liked. Then, finally, you met a very special person. What made them so special was that you no longer had to dissemble around them. You could admit to important truths. You could confess, and be rewarded for sharing, your deepest self. It was a favourite game in the early months. You pushed yourself to go as far as you could. The deeper the secret, the better. No area of the self seemed beyond investigation, no secret too shocking or explicit. You could explain that you found a mutual acquaintance arrogant, narcissistic and mean. Or that you thought some supposed ‘masterpiece’ of a book very boring. You could explain that you liked pulling hair during sex or had always been excited by ropes. Love seemed to be born out of a possibility for new honesty. What had previously been taboo gave way to exhilarating intimacy.



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