Dating Deal Breakers That Drive Men Away: 12 Relationship Killers That Ruin Your Long-Term Potential with High-Quality Men by Bruce Bryans

Author:Bruce Bryans [Bryans, Bruce]
Language: eng
Format: azw3
Publisher: UNKNOWN
Published: 2016-10-16T00:00:00+00:00

Final Thoughts

Now, I know that a handful of women reading to this book may reach this conclusion with a stern pout on their face thinking, “Well, this is all just too much. I don’t need to change, I can find a man who will love me just as I am!” While this may be true to some degree, consider that most, if not all of the unattractive behaviors listed in this book are specifically repelling to a certain type of man – the commitment-minded, high-quality man.

I’m not espousing that a woman has to be perfect in order to find Mr. Right and keep him interested, but I’d be doing you a disservice if I sugar-coated this very important fact: When a high-quality man is seeking a woman specifically for a serious relationship, he will have much higher standards when appraising female behavior and far greater sensitivity towards anything that signifies incompatibility.

These men know that their undivided attention and relationship loyalty are not cheap commodities, and they must therefore have a more demanding screening process when trying to find the right woman to love and someday marry. There is A LOT at stake if a man gets this area of his life wrong. A LOT. So, if he’s in that stage in his life where he’s “auditioning” women for a life of love, passion, mutual respect, and more, he’s going to have an almost cutthroat attitude with the women he dates. (Before you throw stones at me, I should mention that I’ve written several other books advocating that women should possess this very same cutthroat mindset when filtering for Mr. Right. So check those out if you’d like to get a more balanced perspective without feeling as if I’m “picking on the women.”)

On the other hand, a man who only wants a woman for sex, money, to “pass time” with, or some other nefarious purpose will pay very little attention to her behavior and romantic compatibility. In other words, you should be concerned when the guy you’re dating consistently allows you to overstep his boundaries or get away with behavior that offends his self-respect, threatens his well-being, or makes him cringe inwardly. If a man seems indifferent to your personal character and relationship-building behavior it might very well mean that his purpose for dating you is strictly short-term focused. Read that paragraph again.

Being Yourself vs. Being Girlfriend Material

If “being yourself” has attracted phenomenal men who’ve swept you off your feet and loved you unconditionally for great lengths of time, then by all means, ignore everything I’ve said in this book. However, if you’ve found that adhering to the “be yourself” mantra of today’s self-help hasn’t gotten you any closer to being with a man worth respecting unconditionally and loving with all your heart, then it might be time to adopt a slightly different philosophy.

Don’t use “being yourself” as an excuse to soothe your ego and do nothing as you simply wait for the right guy to come along and commit to you despite the unattractive behaviors you struggle with.

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