Approaching Women: A step-by-step guide to getting more dates by Stenstrom Justin

Author:Stenstrom, Justin [Stenstrom, Justin]
Language: eng
Format: epub, azw3, pdf
Published: 2015-12-13T16:00:00+00:00

"Tomorrow is the most important thing in life.

Comes into us at midnight very clean.

It's perfect when it arrives and it puts itself in our hands.

It hopes we've learned something from yesterday."

- John Wayne

Chapter Fourteen

A Woman's Perspective On Meeting Men

Back when I was writing my first book, I wanted to figure out the best time of day to approach women. I knew at the time, from my own experience, that women often loved being stopped during the day and chatted up. It was common when I first began approaching women to get blown out when I approached at night, but pretty rare to get blown out during the day. Of course, I wasn’t very successful when I first started off—nobody really is—but the times were few and far between when I got horribly shut down during the day. I knew there was something to this.

Women are expecting to be approached at night, and so they have their guards up very high. It’s almost like they put their state-of-the-art security systems on high-alert, and they shut you down as soon as you get close. It’s sort of contradictory in a way, because women are going out to meet and interact with men and have a good time, but they also turn away a lot of good men and don’t give themselves a chance to have it.

Yes, quite the paradox indeed.

During the writing of my first book, I created a fairly simple but effective study to get some real-world statistics on what time of day women prefer to be approached. The results were pretty one-sided. Approximately 70 percent of the women I talked to preferred meeting men during the day. Yes, that’s right, of the 130 women I asked, “What time of day do your prefer to meet guys, daytime or nighttime?” 91 of them said they preferred the daytime.

This is actually quite astonishing if you think about it. It’s almost like an untapped and secret way of meeting women; most guys never approach women during the day! And women actually prefer that you approach them this way. How funny! It’s crazy, but true.

Now, I admit that the survey I made is not 100 percent reliable and true for every woman, but it’s still a pretty good sample-size, and the fact that so many women chose the daytime does reveal a lot about what they think.

I had some follow-up questions for these women, and a lot of them told me the reasons why they don’t like meeting men at night. Some of the answers were pretty obvious, while others were rather funny. Their reasons included: men being too pushy, men being too drunk, not being able to have a good conversation, men thinking the women wanted to hook up just because they were out at night, men treating women like pieces of meat, and men just being plain sloppy. These are all major turn-offs for women and a lot of women have decided that meeting sober men during the day is a much better option.

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