Why Wait to Be Great? by Hawkins Terry;

Author:Hawkins, Terry;
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Berrett-Koehler Publishers, Incorporated
Published: 2013-08-15T00:00:00+00:00

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In the second stage, our unconscious mind accepts this perception as truth.

Our unconscious mind instantly accepts whatever we tell ourselves, because our unconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between fact and fiction. This is why it’s crucial to pay attention to the actual language and dialogue we use. Take, for example, relationships. It’s easy to criticize and complain about our partners, but just think how damaging it is to the relationship when one or both parties think that sarcastic quips are a form of humor. Sarcasm requires making a joke at someone else’s expense. And even after the “Sorry — only joking, honey” has come and gone, the damage has been done. That moment has been recorded in the unconscious mind. Twenty years into a relationship, we may be surprised to hear a couple say, “I don’t know why, we just don’t seem to love each other anymore.” Yet their unconscious minds are screaming, “I know the reason! It’s because we keep saying all of those horrible things to each other, and we believe them!” And then we wonder why we fall out of love.

Right after the unconscious mind receives a message, the third stage occurs.

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