Unraveling by Peggy Orenstein
Author:Peggy Orenstein
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: HarperCollins
Published: 2022-11-15T00:00:00+00:00
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Something Blue
MUSIC IS A MADELEINE. WHEN I am ninety-fourâif I am ninety-fourâand the details of my life grow hazy, I am certain I will still be able to call up every lyric to Joni Mitchellâs Blue, the way my dad, even when otherwise incoherent during our wool-carding sessions, would rally to âGive My Regards to Broadway.â Blue was the first album that grabbed me by the throat, the first vinyl record that I actually wore out. A budding guitarist, I pored over Joniâs open tunings and chord shapes, trained my voice to sound like hers, or as close to it as I could get. My vocal range has narrowed and dropped with age (as, to be fair, has Joniâs), but I can still warble a creditable âCarey.â Nor do I have to wait until senescence for the songs to hurtle me into the past. When Blue pops up on my Spotify, I am instantly transported to my chilly childhood bedroom, the lights shut off, cloaked in early winter twilight. Behind me, taped above my headboard, is Sylvia Plathâs poem âMad Girlâs Love Song,â scrupulously copied out in multicolored Flair pensâwould I remember that detail without the prompting opening notes of âRiverâ? The record changer arm is up so the disc plays on repeat. My sixteen-year-old self listens to Joni and cries, the sort of luxuriant tears only available to those who have not yet experienced real sorrow. âIâm so hard to handle,â Joni croons, âIâm selfish and Iâm sad.â Yes I am, Joni, that younger me thinks, yes I am.
These days, I donât have time for a romantic wallow. No, thatâs not true. Of course I doâespecially during quarantine: itâs not like Iâm going anywhere. There is plenty of opportunity to brood and languish. Itâs more that now, closer to lifeâs end than its beginning, I have to be careful, parsing out my blue in small bits that wonât overwhelm: the azure of paths not taken; the midnight of standing at my motherâs grave; the cerulean of watching my daughter fill out college applications; the slate of days long past, and the cobalt of knowing how long past they are. Thatâs what it is with blue. The color forces contemplation, wrapping you in an almostâbut not quiteâpleasant quilt of wistfulness, remorse, reverie, regret. It is not blackâblue is gentler, less resignedâbut it is close. Goethe wrote that blueâs power is that it perpetually recedes, not meeting us, but forcing us to move toward it. Picasso, of course, had his blue period, Wallace Stevens his blue guitar, Leonard Cohen his famous blue raincoat. Jazz standards assure us that blue skies smile and bluebirds bring happiness, yet that is at odds with the truth of the blues: of âMood Indigo,â of Kind of Blue (another album I wore out), of Billie Holiday and Howlinâ Wolf. No one, by the way, knows for sure how the blues got its name. One theory holds that it comes from the indigo-dyed cloth some West African cultures traditionally wear when theyâre in mourning.
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