The Two Truths about Love by Jason B Fischer

Author:Jason B Fischer
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: New Harbinger Publications
Published: 2021-01-15T20:40:03+00:00

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“Early communication is easy communication.”

Most conflicts in relationships occur because something that could have been talked about sooner went ignored for too long. Whatever it is, one or both people allowed the issue to fester under the surface, not wanting to address it. Ironically, this choice is usually made in an effort to promote harmony in the relationship. Unfortunately, emotion about this issue continues to grow to the point where it can no longer be contained and then, apparently all of a sudden, there’s an explosive conflict. What once could have been discussed calmly becomes an emotionally charged argument in which little can be accomplished. The solution to this is to choose early communication.

The calmer you are, the easier your communications will be. Realizing this, you can choose to address issues as they arise, while you are only a bit outside your comfort zone or, better yet, when you notice yourself nearing its edge. Since you aren’t overly emotional at that time, you increase your chances of communicating about the issue in a way that facilitates arriving at a solution while protecting the relationship from unnecessary disharmony.

Choosing early communication over late communication is the act of choosing easy communication over difficult communication. That’s a smart choice! Although it may take some courage to address a matter early on, doing so extends compassion to both yourself and others. It spares your relationships from bigger and more difficult confrontations in the future.

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