The Ten Questions to Ask for Success by Phil Parker

Author:Phil Parker
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Hay House, Inc.
Published: 2012-06-02T04:00:00+00:00

Step 4. Resolution Starts

Resolution begins with a change of perspective that allows for understanding.

Internal Conflicts

These are conflicts with yourself. As mentioned earlier, they can often be identified by statements such as, ‘Part of me wants to do this – but a bit of me wants to do that instead.’

There are some important points that you need to consider and recognize before going further:

There is a ‘part’ or ‘bit’ in charge of this behaviour, although it will probably be working unconsciously – i.e. without you consciously choosing to act in this way.

Consider how you might have created this behaviour in response to a difficult situation, probably a long time ago when you were much younger.

At that time, this was the best and probably the only sensible and appropriate response you could have made, based on your understanding of how the world worked, what was possible and impossible, your choices and role models.

At that time this behaviour worked for you and it was successful on a number of different occasions at getting you out of difficult situations.

Ever since then it’s just been doing its job, just as you asked it to do in the first place. In fact it’s been astonishing in its perseverance, and determined in following your original instructions precisely for all these years, with very little thanks.

So although it may not seem so at first, this part of you/response of yours has actually been working very hard for you and wants something very valuable for you.

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