The Surrendered Single: A Practical Guide to Attracting and Marrying the M by Doyle Laura

Author:Doyle, Laura [Doyle, Laura]
Language: eng
Format: epub, pdf
Publisher: Touchstone
Published: 2009-11-20T00:00:00+00:00

HE’S THE ONE WHO’S AUDITIONING

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A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while he gets to know something.

—WILSON MIZNER

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Refraining from overtaking helped me stay calm and focused on how I felt and what I wanted. I was myself but a more reserved version of myself. Without realizing it, I’d put myself squarely in the position to receive. This probably seemed feminine to John and may have a lot to do with why we hit it off so well on the night of March 18,1988.

I call this quiet approach surrendered dating. By not trying to control the direction or tone of the conversation, I could hear my own voice more clearly.

The benefit of surrendering on a date is that it allows the woman to be more:

observant: The better we listen and watch, the more information we’ll have to help us decide whether to continue dating a guy.

confident: We seem relaxed and at ease when we’re not bursting at the seams with something to say.

feminine: We’re softer when we’re simply smiling and responding than we would be if we were trying to direct the conversation.

receptive: We’re better listeners when we’re quiet.

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