The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships by Mali Apple & Joe Dunn

Author:Mali Apple & Joe Dunn [Apple, Mali]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: KindleUnlimited
ISBN: 9780984562213
Publisher: A Higher Possibility
Published: 2011-04-26T07:00:00+00:00

We often insist we can’t let go of things we find irritating or feel resentful about. But this idea is only another limiting belief. When we finally realize that what we’re holding onto is the real cause of our suffering—and when our desire for connection is stronger than our desire to be right—we really can just drop it. To create and sustain a soulmate experience, it’s essential that we learn to be flexible when we realize we have positions, expectations, or other attachments to how things should be.

Identify Your Resentments

A powerful way to free your relationship from the suffocating burden of resentments is to dissolve them together. If you are both committed to creating a loving, safe relationship space, then bringing your resentments out into the open and helping each other find ways to release them can be an incredibly bonding experience.

If you want to try this together, know that it will take a strong intention to stay connected as you focus on releasing, and thereby healing, your resentments. The pull to get drawn back in to defending and justifying your position may be quite strong. Stay with the process only as long as you both feel it’s helpful—meaning as long as it’s decreasing resentment rather than increasing it!

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