The MANScript by Julia Keys & Jacqui Coles

Author:Julia Keys & Jacqui Coles
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Hashtag Press
Published: 2018-07-15T00:00:00+00:00

“She says it’s really not very flattering to her that the women who fall in love with her husband are so uncommonly second-rate.”

W. Somerset Maugham,

British playwright and novelist, 1874–1965

Chapter Six

His Other-Woman Script

After the revelations of the adulterer’s Own Script, we now move on to discuss the lies he tells the Other-Woman, and you, to protect himself. We also address how you can handle these lies.

It would be easy for us to write about how many of the other women are heartless home-wreckers, selfish and manipulative. However, this is not always the case. Some of the other women don’t realise they have been played and the person they have fallen in love with is married or in a relationship.

Some men are such accomplished pathological liars they can dupe anyone. You will recall that in Alan’s account in the previous chapter, he openly admitted to protecting the Other-Woman and his secret ‘cosy world.’ He may even provide his wife with a made-up name for his Other-Woman to protect her identity.

One thing is almost certain: when most men are having an affair they choose to stop working on their existing relationship and instead put all their focus into the new and exciting part of their life. Making the Other-Woman feel like the number one person becomes their priority.

Without doubt, he will have made himself out to be a ‘victim.’ He will have no hesitation in telling the Other-Woman how you don’t care about him and haven’t had sex for months, even years. In essence, he will say nothing to show you in a good light.

By now the woman will be feeling sorry for him and want to take care of him, unlike you, the nasty vindictive psychopath who treats him like dirt. During the secretive stage of an affair, the Other-Woman is seen as exciting and full of mysterious fun.

Some men have told us it was the risk, danger and sense of excitement that held the appeal. Those of us on the receiving end of being cheated on will find this very hard to comprehend. While you are dealing with all the things everyday life brings to your door, he is looking for an escape from reality in his quest for a bit of fun.

When you find out your partner has cheated on you, you automatically react with anger, despair, humiliation, and total and utter confusion as your world falls apart. As a result, your behaviour may result in you showing signs of that ‘erratic person’ he has already told the Other-Woman you are. You may be crying one minute and screaming the next. Frankly, how did he expect you to behave when you found out?

The Other-Woman can often look like the saintly one, the one who is calm, listens, provides a shoulder to cry on and supports the man through the crisis they and your betraying partner actually caused in the first place!

It seems incredible that some women will fall for the clichés men have been saying for so long, but so many women continue to do so.

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