The Man God Has For You by Stephan Labossiere

Author:Stephan Labossiere [Labossiere, Stephan]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Highly Favored Publishing
Published: 2017-07-27T05:00:00+00:00

Trait #4

He Wants a Helpmate, Not a Playmate

Boys always want to play, while men are ready to work. Boys look for playmates, while men desire a helpmate.

Do you see where I’m going with this?

The man God has for you isn’t about all the games and child’s play. He’s focused and has a grasp on what he wants to accomplish in his life and a relationship. Lies, unwillingness to commit, disrespect, and other negative behaviors are not signs of a man who is serious about being with you.

The man who is for you doesn’t look for you to be his crutch or use you. He wants to work with you, build with you, love you, and pour into you.

You need to be aware of the signs from men who only look to play. Too many of you, your friends and family members constantly fall into these traps. The red flags are there. You either see and ignore them, or miss them altogether; and overlook the traits and characteristics that tell you whether or not a man is serious or playing games.

A common issue women experience is the man who’s unsure of what he wants. He doesn’t know if he’s ready for a relationship, or where he wants things to go.

Let’s just go with the flow.

Let’s not stress things or overanalyze…

It’s a popular phrase men use, and if you’ve been told this, more than likely he’s playing games. He is feeding you BS, and to be honest, he’s not that confused. He knows what he wants, but he can’t tell you that because he knows he won’t get it.

For instance, you meet a man and, quite frankly, he wants to have sex but he’ll say he wants to have fun.

He’s looking for a no pressure situation where he can enjoy himself at his convenience, everyone’s happy, no one’s complaining, and he’s free to do as he pleases.

But he can’t tell you that.

No matter how many women say if a man just wants to have sex, just say it and maybe he’ll get it, there’s a one percent chance of it possibly happening, and of course I’m exaggerating a bit; however, in ninety-nine percent of those situations he’s not going to get it.

You’re going to shut it down.

Why?

Because most women aren’t looking for that type of situation. When you do entertain it, more than likely it’s because you’ve become fatigued with relationships, or you’re looking for something convenient and easy due to not healing from previous disappointments. Although most times it’s not as convenient as you’d like, but you want it because you’re scared to put yourself out there and be vulnerable, so you look for a safer route to companionship.

It’s your in between.

You avoid the a real, or whole relationship because you don’t want the pain and disappointment you believe comes with it. So you allow yourself to accept “fun,” easy, and convenient. Even when you think this dynamic is OK, the impact is different when a man is straightforward about his true intentions.

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