The Girlfriend Experience by Rebecca Dakin

Author:Rebecca Dakin [Dakin, Rebecca]
Language: eng
Format: mobi, epub
Published: 2011-04-07T04:00:00+00:00

CHAPTER 14:

The Girlfriend Experience

Everyone has their own interpretation of the sought-after ‘Girlfriend Experience’ (GFE), but to most people it means a lady who makes the experience fun, enjoyable, unhurried and relaxing – more like a ‘real date’ than a commercial encounter. However, in practice whether this is actually achieved depends on many things, including personality, chemistry and mutual expectations.

The opposite of the GFE is the PSE (Porn Star Experience), which has a strong emphasis on the sexual side of the encounter, and as the name suggests, these girls generally offer hardcore, porn-style sex. These experiences can be cold and detached, with lots of fake moaning and no kissing, and sometimes it’s clear the girls aren’t really enjoying themselves and are just doing it for the money.

There are also the very sought-after ladies who have the ability to switch between both – allegedly giving a GFE in public, and a PSE behind closed doors. I personally think there’s no such thing, as the two things contradict each other. Girls offering a PSE generally don’t kiss, and I can’t imagine any boyfriend, no matter how much he loved wild sex, would find that acceptable. And surely guys would want real moaning and groaning, not the fake groans associated with the ‘Porn Star Experience’? So, when guys say the lady offers a GFE/PSE combination, they actually mean it’s a raunchy GFE

– I suppose like having a girlfriend who’s a nymph, and who genuinely enjoys sex.

My personal opinion is that you can’t offer a GFE for any date that doesn’t involve being wined and dined. It’s about more than the sex – it’s a total package, and I think you need to get to know someone outside of the bedroom to really have a GFE. That’s why I mostly see people for overnight/dinner dates and longer. The things that I think make me a good GFE are that I am affectionate and tactile and I love kissing and intimacy. Also, I’m a friendly and warm person, who is caring and giving when treated respectfully. I’m told I can quickly put the most nervous and shy person at ease. I enjoy being wined and dined, and having weekends away. I’m well-mannered and likeable, and I don’t wear a lot of make-up. I prefer the natural look, with no hair or nail extensions (only boob extensions!). I don’t wear tarty, revealing clothes for my dates, and I dress like a lady. One of my clients recently told me I was the most sensual woman he’d made love to. He’d seen a number of escorts and said he felt that many of them were trying to detach themselves from the experience, but he said I made things feel very natural.

In my early days there was one time when I wasn’t very professional. I was on an overnight date with one of my regulars and we’d got back to the room after dinner. I’d had a whole bottle of wine with dinner, as he was Muslim and didn’t drink.

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