People Training: Use Subconscious Signals To Train Desired Behaviors Into Anybody You Want by Hutton George

Author:Hutton, George [Hutton, George]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2018-09-29T16:00:00+00:00

Simple Training Examples

Here we’ll go over some very simple examples. These are one shot training examples, but they’ll help us to transition into more complicated behavioral shifts.

TV example

Watching TV with somebody is useful because it can serve as both an outcome and a stimulus. One thing might be to train your partner to watch the shows you want to watch. We’ll assume that you aren’t going to force them to watch your shows all the time, only give you a fair balance. Let’s say there’s a show you want to watch on Tuesday. You’d like to watch it with your partner, but they have said they really don’t want to watch it at all. The first rule of training is the positive reinforcement can’t be expected. So, trying to bargain with them ahead of time is out. The reason this is out of the question is because it will remove the necessary uncertainty. They must come to the conclusion on their own, ideally subconsciously, that doing what you want will result in something positive. This doesn’t mean you can’t use conscious techniques to first convince them to watch the TV show. Only that the positive reinforcements must be delivered unexpectedly. So, we’ll assume you begged and pleaded to get them to watch the TV show with you. As soon as the show starts, deliver the positive reinforcement. Perhaps get them to sit on the floor, while you sit on the couch and give them a shoulder massage. Then when next week rolls around, ask them to watch again, and again, give them a shoulder massage. The following week begin to watch the show and see if they voluntarily watch with you. Give them a slightly different version of affection. The following week, watch the show, be nice, but don’t give them any additional affection. After a few weeks, they will have been trained to watch the show with you without being asked. They may even develop an affinity for it, for their own reasons, and anticipate the event.

Doing or Helping with The Dishes

This will be similar, but a little bit more difficult. A TV show is easy, since most of us can convince ourselves of enjoying any TV show with the addition of any positive reinforcement. But something like the dishes will never be something we look forward to. This will require a mix of conscious and subconscious rewards. So long as they are delivered unexpectedly, they will work. The first step is to ask your partner to help with the dishes. They may help, they may not. The trick is to only deliver the positive reinforcement after they’ve helped. This can also be a place where you may use a little negative reinforcement as well. If you ask them to help, and they help, give them plenty of affection or positive attention. Make sure it is affection or attention they like for their own reasons. When you ask, and they don’t help, remove any affection or even communication for a set amount of time.

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