Never Get Ghosted Again: 15 Reasons Why Men Lose Interest and How to Avoid Guys Who Can't Commit by Bruce Bryans

Author:Bruce Bryans [Bryans, Bruce]
Language: eng
Format: azw3
Publisher: UNKNOWN
Published: 2019-05-20T00:00:00+00:00

Chapter 4

When He’s Just Not Buying Whatever You’re Selling

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He didn’t feel enough chemistry.

Here’s the reality. A man may find you physically attractive enough to ask you out a few times but then quickly realize that he didn’t feel any chemistry with you. Although chemistry (or a lack of it) is usually sensed by both parties involved, there are those occasions when one person feels a spark but the other person doesn’t. In situations like this, a woman might quickly develop feelings for a man for a myriad of reasons and want to see more of him. But unfortunately, the gentleman in question doesn’t feel the same and simply decided to move on without any kind of verbal or written indication that he was no longer interested.

When a guy takes you out on a handful of dates and disappears because of a lack of chemistry, consider yourself fortunate. I know, I know. Having someone ghost on you is disrespectful, humiliating, and anxiety inducing. I’m not asking you to not take it personally or be irritated; I’m just saying that it’s better to know early on that a man wasn’t that interested or attracted to you enough than to be strung along for several months of dating.

When a Guy Friend Sparks Your Interest

You may already be friends with a guy you’re really interested in and it always appears as if you’re oh-so-close to getting him to make a move on you. Except he never does. He’s always eager to hang out with you, is thoughtful of you, and even shares secrets with you, but ultimately…you’re just a friend.

Whenever you find yourself effectively “friend-zoned” by a man who never picks up (or ignores) your romantic signals, what we have is a guy who doesn’t feel any sexual chemistry with you. Sure, he might love spending time with you, adores your personality, and even acts as if you’re the most fun person he’s ever met, but without sexual chemistry he will continue to ignore your attempts to launch the relationship in a more romantic direction.

How do I know? Well, because on several occasions I’ve been the guy in this sort of situation. I’ve always been a pretty friendly guy, especially with the ladies, and didn’t find it difficult to form friendships with the opposite sex. If I didn’t feel any kind of physical attraction or sexual chemistry with a close female friend from the beginning the friendship, I most certainly didn’t feel it later on. I’m not saying this is the same for all men, but generally, men don’t take very long at all to figure out if they’re romantically attracted to a woman or not.

Don’t Become Firewood for His Ego

The biggest danger for a woman in any of the above situations is to find herself deeply attracted to a man who has become addicted to her attention, even though he doesn’t feel any sexual chemistry. This is why I mentioned earlier that it’s better to have a guy who doesn’t feel that spark bail on you after several dates.

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