Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secrets To Get The Guy, Keep Him Interested, And Prevent Dead-End Relationships by Bruce Bryans

Author:Bruce Bryans [Bryans, Bruce]
Language: eng
Format: epub, mobi, pdf
Published: 2015-05-19T18:30:00+00:00

Chapter Three:

Communicate High-Value and Be the Woman Men Adore

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Stay positive as you search for the right suitor.

It’s important for a woman to understand that rejection, love loss, and bad timing are all a part of the dating journey. You may be tempted to act wishy-washy with men after a string of guys treat you the same way. You might find yourself crying on the floor of your bedroom when a guy breaks your heart. Or you may be tempted to cut off your hair (you know it happens) after a tumultuous breakup with a man you gave your all to. That’s okay. Just don’t let these types of experiences define you.

If you become easily disheartened after a bad breakup or because you lost some guy’s interest, you may find that your attitude towards men may slowly change for the worse. Nothing is more unattractive to a quality, genuine guy than a woman who seems as if she doesn’t enjoy being around men.

Don’t allow your baggage from past relationships to affect your attitude towards men and dating. Guys who are a bit more experienced with women have radar for this sort of thing. They can easily (and rather quickly) pick up on those behavioral cues that reveal a distrustful or cold-hearted attitude towards men.

So as you go through trial and error in your search for a man who deserves your all, maintain a positive mental attitude. Have faith that your Mr. Right is out there as well, and is probably going through just as much dating hell as you, if not more, in his quest to find you. When it comes to finding your Mr. McDreamy, your foundational attitude should be based on the reality that if one woman can find her Mr. Right and marry him, so can you.

Don’t let your past be a club that beats you over the head every single day of your life, let it be a teacher instead. Have the courage to love and be loved, despite your past.

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Be graceful when communicating with men. The masculine heart is helpless in the presence of a woman whose language is tender and respectful.

Ensure that you communicate gracefully with the men you date. High-quality men seek out women with high emotional intelligence for relationships. These are women who can confidently express themselves without emasculating their guy in the process.

The way you handle disagreements and conflict plays a huge role in how men determine whether or not a relationship is worth it. There’s nothing wrong with being very assertive if that’s your personality, but there’s a difference between being assertive and being aggressive in how you communicate with men. The former is attractive, the latter not so much.

If you find that the men you date continually shut you out or shut down on you (both are examples of male stonewalling) during an argument or even during minor disagreements it may be because you have difficulty communicating respectfully with men. In my book, Make Him BEG For Your Attention, I

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