Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert J Rubel PhD

Author:Robert J Rubel PhD
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2010-02-09T11:58:00+00:00

These are proxy questions for key issues about kindness, loyalty, personal competence, self-confidence, personal ethics, kink preferences, self-reliance, and so forth. They are only part of your packet of questions. It is up to you to extend this list.

The next group of questions concern what your slave candidate may be seeking. Again, you really need to think this list through and create one that comes from YOUR being, not from my head. Consider the next two lists as starting points.

Questions a Master Might Ask of a submissive/ slave

• Don't get me wrong, I'm flattered, but why did you pick ME to petition?

• Specifically, what skills do you seek in a Master? What evidence do you have that I can help you with that?

• Name some life-goals that you think I could help you attain.

• How do you see me helping you grow in personal or skill areas?

• How have you prepared to be a slave? Have you been in service before? (NOTE: it is very important that you learn about this person from others within his or her community. See below for the section on "Poor Quality submissive/slave.")

• "Living in Service" can mean different things to different people; can you explain what living in service means to you?

• What acts of service have you experienced - both for pay and as a volunteer?

• There's a lot of discussion about loving your slave. Where do you stand on the subject of love in M/s relations?

• In your past relationships, how have prior Masters distinguished between punishment and correction? Please give examples of a few issues that occurred to you that you suspect would cause me to punish or to correct you.

• What kinds of support/help do you seek from a Master? What role do you wish your Master to fulfill?

• Are there times in your past relationships when you were loaned out? Tell me about those. What was the purpose in loaning you out, and how did you feel about that? What safeguards were in place when you were loaned out? Did you feel those were adequate?

• Please describe in detail the kind of sex play you particularly enjoy. Said differently, what level of sex play do you wish of me? What experiences have you had with a polyamorous lifestyle? (If you, the reader, are also interested in the swinging lifestyle, you will have to develop appropriate questions.)

• In the future, I might wish to consider having more than one slave. How do you react to that?

• In your prior M/s relationships, how was SM play folded in with daily living?

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