101 Nights of Great Sex by Laura Corn

Author:Laura Corn [Corn, Laura]
Language: eng
Format: epub, mobi, pdf
Publisher: Park Avenue Publishers, Inc
Published: 2014-01-12T22:00:00+00:00

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NO. 83 SHAMELESS TEASING

INGREDIENTS

flirting

a little imagination

ONE OF MY DEAREST FRIENDS is married to a wonderful woman named Marcia. I absolutely love this amazing story he tells about her:

“It started off because our new tile floors were too cold for Marcia, so she started wearing slippers around the house. She has this routine where she always takes a long bath, and this one particular night, while she was waiting for the tub to fill, she couldn’t find her robe. So she went strolling to the kitchen wearing nothing but a pair of fuzzy, leopard-print slippers.

Naturally, I expressed my admiration for the view as she walked by! She laughed, took a little bow, even did a little dance. I cheered her on, and she winked and said if I was a good boy, I might get to see that again sometime.

Well, it became a nightly ritual, this Fuzzy Slipper Dance, and I can’t tell you how much I look forward to it. It’s gotten better over the years, too; she’s added some real dance moves. Then last year — this was so cool! — last year she found a big pink feather boa, like old-time strippers used. It’s kind of a cheap thing, and it’s been slowly falling apart. Every night when she dances with it, a few more tiny little pink feathers escape and float away.

And I just love it. It’s the anchor to my entire day. I might be catching up on the news, or bills, or watching TV, but I know that at some point every night, for just a minute or two, this beautiful naked woman is going to dance for me. And she knows that I am going to stop everything, watch appreciatively, and remind her how gorgeous she is.”

Oh-h-h, Marcia! You are an inspiration to us all. I just love that story because it drives home the importance of flirting, even after your relationship has long been established. Especially then. The happiest couples I know flirt regularly, and often. Their little flirting rituals can be funny or sexy or romantic or, like the Fuzzy Slipper Dance, all three at once. But they are not meant to be foreplay—they simply reinforce the relationship. Every time you flirt with your guy, you remind him that he is—and always will be—Number One.

As for me, I used to get dressed in the closet, and usually in a hurry, until one day it became clear how much Jeff loved to watch me do it. Now I make a show of it, just for him. I also have a special little butt-grabbing-wiggle-dance I do when I leave the bedroom—no, I will not demonstrate!—and it always makes him laugh and applaud. He makes me come back if I forget. Notice that these little routines don’t lead directly to sex. But they’re just as important as sex when it comes to building a sense of intimacy between lovers.

Your assignment this week is to create a new flirting ritual.

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