How to Talk to Anyone in Any Situation: Unlock the Secrets of Effective Communication by Brenda Hill

Author:Brenda Hill [Hill, Brenda]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Brenda Hill
Published: 0101-01-01T00:00:00+00:00

Necessary Qualities

In this part of the section, we will be moving into the qualities that you will need in order to be an effective persuader.

Although persuasion can be difficult to apply at first, you will be able to master this skill completely with a little bit of effort.

Basically, the most important aspect of being a good persuader is your charisma. People are naturally drawn to those who emit charisma.

Most of the time, you don’t know what it is about them that attract you but you are attracted anyways.

That is because charismatic people know how to attract others around their circle. They know how to act and what to say and when to say it.

Of course, the number one aspect that a charismatic person has is confidence. It doesn’t matter what type of person you are, everyone is attracted to those who can show a high level of confidence in what they do. That is why having confidence is so important. Everything starts with self-confidence.

Now self-confidence is tricky, but the concept is very simple. Confidence works both negatively and positively.

Don’t believe the whole idea that confident people are happy people. The way confidence works is whether you’re confident enough to succeed, or whether you’re confident enough to fail.

Yet, what you want to aim for is the confidence to succeed. Now, there are about three important points that you need to keep in mind in order to boost up your self-confidence. So pay attention and start applying.

1. Number one key point in improving your self-confidence is imagination and affirmation. You must be able to imagine yourself as the person that you want to become. Think about the future. How do you see yourself five years from now?

What do you want to be like five years from now? Memorize that image in your mind and keep it there because that image is going to tell yourself that you will succeed.

Once you show that you are confident, others will start to see you as a confident person. They will believe in you and they will want to help you succeed.

2. The second key is to conquer your fears. Everybody is afraid of something whether it’s a small fear or a big fear. It doesn’t matter. Yet, what matters is having the ability to get over that fear.

Fear may be our worst enemy, but it’s also our biggest benefactor. Fear is what allows us to grow as a person. It makes us stronger individuals than our past selves, and it makes us change.

You never want to fall victim to your own fear. If you allow it to consume you then you will be leaning your self-confidence towards your negative aspects rather than your positive one. This will then completely contradict the first key point that you were working towards.

3. The last key point is about persistency and perseverance. Both of these words should have been heavily emphasized in your life from the moment you entered grade school. Teachers will emphasize this all the time.

They will tell you to embrace your dreams.

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