How To Set Up An FLR by Green Georgia Ivey
Author:Green, Georgia Ivey [Green, Georgia Ivey]
Language: eng
Format: epub, pdf
Published: 2013-02-04T00:00:00+00:00
Chapter 11: Rewards
In any Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationship (which this is, remember?), there are two things necessary to maintain control and keep things running smoothly...Rewards and punishments.
In this case, since, as we discussed earlier, men and women are not created equally, the rewards can be sexual in nature. Men respond very well to sexual rewards. Women have often used sex (or the lack of it) as a punishment. I will show you how to use it as a reward and to use it more effectively in order to maintain better control of your partner.
Rewards are very important in any relationship where one partner is in authority over the other, such as a Shipboard or Dictatorship style relationship. Without proper rewards, morale decreases, and unrest sets in, followed by revolution, or mutiny (as the case may be). To prevent that, keep the troops happy. The best way to do that is to reward them for good behavior, frequently. In other words, you, as the dominant partner, are going to have to find ways of rewarding your subordinate (partner) often. Sexual gratification is the best reward you can give a man. He wants it. If he doesn't get it from his partner, he may find other ways of getting it. He may turn to pornography, masturbation, or even another woman.
So what are the ways in which a man can be rewarded? Well, as odd as it may seem, tease and denial is the best way to keep him happy. By teasing him often, and in various ways, then denying him sexual release, he will become the best partner you could ever hope for. It won't be easy, at least, not at first. Eventually, with practice, you will become very good at keeping him sexually aroused and very compliant.
Believe it or not, one of the best ways of keeping him happy and compliant is not to allow him to ejaculate. At least not very often. If you haven't considered a chastity device, this would be a good time to do so. Denying your partner the opportunity to ejaculate any time he feels like it can be very advantageous.
Men are different from woman in that they go through some physiological changes when they ejaculate in the normal manner. That is, they become less interested in sex and more interested in other types of gratification, like...Football? After sex is the worst time to try to get him to do anything you want him to. You can test this simply by asking him to take you to the mall the morning after you have given him really great sex. Chances are, he will either flatly refuse, or he will do it begrudgingly. If you first establish a routine of keeping him aroused as much of the time as possible while denying him the release he wants, and he will jump at the chance to accompany you to the mall.
So, all you have to do is find ways of keeping your partner aroused and he will be like putty in your hands.
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