Get What You Want from Your Man by Baldwin Shirley;

Get What You Want from Your Man by Baldwin Shirley;

Author:Baldwin, Shirley; [Shirley Baldwin]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Morgan James Publishing
Published: 2019-08-15T00:00:00+00:00


The Power of “Want”

How many times have you given a hint to your man to try to get him to do something or remember something? For example, “Hey, do you know what is going on in two weeks?” or “Hmmmm, I wonder why today feels like such a special day?” What if you just said, “Hey, our anniversary is coming up. I really want it to be a special day, can we do something?” No coyness, no beating around the bush, no expecting him to already know the answer – just ask the question, straight to the point.

This is what men want. They aren’t mind readers. They aren’t looking through a crystal ball. They are just men and they have not a clue what you want from them until you tell them. How often are you frustrated or angry with your man about something he didn’t do or say? How often does your man even know what you wanted done or said in the first place? I have heard this from almost every single man I’ve come across. They all say that if their woman would just tell them what she wants or needs, they would be so much more willing to give it to her. Women go wrong when they assume a man’s mind works as theirs does, and even that men would have similar needs so theirs ought to be “obvious.”

Jeff and I have had many conversations about this. I’m extremely open about everything. I’m not very good at hiding a feeling, want or need – at all. So I often just blurt out what I’m going through at that moment. If I’m feeling overwhelmed with love, I tell him. If my feelings get hurt, I tell him. If I’m insecure or jealous, I tell him. If I’m staring at him because I can’t get enough of his hotness, I just tell him. If I want something from him, I ask. In full disclosure, this hasn’t always worked out in my best interest. There is such a thing as too much of a good thing. It’s probably good to add that considerate timing is very helpful when being completely open with your man. But I promise, more times than not, they really appreciate it!



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