Don't Forget Your Crown by Derrick Jaxn

Author:Derrick Jaxn
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: love, relationships, family, sex, self, narcissism, pyschology, derrick, derrick jaxn, jaxn
Publisher: Derrick Jaxn

Most women have some characteristic of one of those women, but if he’s really a good man, he’ll be able to tell those who fit the toxic unhealthy description and those who don’t. It’s the balance or lack thereof that makes the difference.

Good women have men they like to avoid as well, but what has been more of a problem for women are the men they don’t avoid in pursuit of their “type.” Sure, as a woman, you should be with someone you’re attracted to, but if you are pursuing the type of man that excites you more than the type that fulfills you, you may be avoiding the very one you’re meant to spend the rest of your life with.

This is not about a moral obligation to choose a “good man” despite being disgusted by him. This is a fact check on the things you told yourself made you happy to see if they really have. A tall man may make you feel protected, but what about a tall man who’s not protective, versus a short man who’ll fight to the death in your honor? A guy who has good money would certainly provide some peace of mind, but if you had to choose between a well-off man who feels entitled due to his bank account or a man who’s frugal but would give you his last if you ever needed it, who would it be?

The point is, your type has to be based on the right priorities per the type of relationship you want. If you just want someone for physical fun, run with the type that gets you horny. If you just want someone to show off online, then go with the type that has the stat sheet your friends will envy you for.

But if you’re wanting your next relationship to be the real thing--a companionship, partnership, and spiritually connected and growth-oriented relationship--then your type has to prioritize his character above all. Since things that reveal his character won’t immediately jump out during the first impression, it may require you getting to know the guy who doesn’t visually impress you or immediately sweep you off your feet.

It’s not exactly the sexiest thing you’ll hear me tell you, but at a certain age, consistency is a lot sexier than broad shoulders and a six-pack. A mesmerizing smile is dreamy until you realize a lying tongue is behind it. At no point should you settle for a man you’re repulsed by in any way, but another thing you should never compromise on are requirements to protect your heart. Be flexible on those qualities you enjoyed in your youth instead of continuing to be impressed and blinded by the same trinkets over and over again.

I’m aware that there are women who have mature priorities in things they look for in a man and still get hurt. Women who go on a few weeks of dates, and the moment their guard gets let down, in comes the guy they’re with on some bullshit to hurt them and bring them back to square one.

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