Date Like a Dude by Sam Pease

Author:Sam Pease [Sam Pease]
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 9781775538011
Publisher: Penguin Random House New Zealand
Published: 2015-01-15T00:00:00+00:00

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GREAT SEXPECTATIONS

Men look for sex and find love. Women look for love and find sex.

IT’S A FAMILIAR story: girl meets boy, girl shags boy, boy disappears, girl feels rejected, girl over-analyses and decides all men are bastards.

They’re not. When someone vanishes after an intimate moment, it’s not sexual rejection; it’s a mis-matching of sexpectations.

A 2013 study revealed that most women in sex-only relationships were secretly hoping it would turn into something more permanent. Unless you have had a discussion beforehand implying that sex will lead to commitment, it’s foolish to assume that it will. Sex shouldn’t lead to a relationship; it should be an organic part of it.

Men tend to view sex, love and marriage as a series of interconnecting circles like on a Venn diagram. When they meet the right woman at the right time, the overlapping circles all magically slide into place into one big circle … with one woman standing in the middle. However, women tend to see sex, love and marriage as a straight line, a linear progression that stems from sex and leads to commitment.

A man not calling you after sex doesn’t mean you’re bad in bed, unless you’re light on repeat visitors. It simply means that they don’t think the emotional, physical or intellectual chemistry was strong enough to warrant further contact.

So, there are two things you can do: become celibate, or be proactive and decide when, where, how and with whom you have sex.

TO DATE LIKE A DUDE

Choose wisely, then there’ll be no need to grump about the pump and dump.

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