Sex, Dating and Really Confusing Girls by Sue Ostler

Author:Sue Ostler
Language: eng
Format: epub, pdf
Tags: dating, relationships, flirting, speed dating, love, confidence, sex, one night stand, pubs, men, women, naughty, single, romance, romantic, girls, swinging
ISBN: 9781780920429
Publisher: Andrews UK Limited 2012
Published: 2012-02-27T00:00:00+00:00

30 Second Quiz: Spot The Biggest Flirt

There’s no right or wrong in this game, it’s simply a matter of coming up with your own opinion. The choice of who’s hot and who’s not is a personal one, so you’re welcome to make-up your own list and narrow it down to those whose personality, style or image is complimentary to your own. Have a squiz at the examples provided here to get some food for thought. The idea is to pinpoint the traits within others that you find appealing, and hopefully along the way, find characteristics you identify with.

Toast Your Glasses To…Your Heroes

Who are your heroes? Who do you admire? Can you name any rock stars, politicians or sportsmen that inspire you? Put on your fantasy hat for a minute and suppose that someone came along and said, “Take this pill and you can be whoever you want to be”. Who would you choose to be?

Now think about what makes you respond to those you admire. It’s all very well to say that they’re cool, in the same way I would drool and say that Johnny Depp and Dave Grohl and sex-on-legs Jon Hamm from Mad Men are cool – but let’s get down to tic-tacs. What is it exactly?

Is it their style and image? Their mannerisms and character? Or the way they rock a particular look? Maybe it is quite simply their charisma. Whatever it is, break it down to individual features. Identify what you like about them and why. Try to be specific. What characteristics do they have that you recognize? Are there any you can adapt? That’s not to say you’re going to get away with glamming up like Russell Brand anytime soon, it doesn’t work like that, but hey, you might pick up some tips to compliment your style along the way.

Thanks to the world of the internet and highly accessible visual mediums, you can study your idols to your heart’s content. Whether it’s through their back catalogue of films, books or music, there are plenty of ways to get insight into what makes them tick. Use film footage and live appearances to see what gives them their edge.

Whether you love or hate them, channelling the greatest seducers in history will get you thinking. The added bonus is a refreshed interest in popular culture. There’s barely a woman alive who won’t be impressed by your celebrity knowledge, especially if you can offer an informed opinion on Cheryl Cole’s latest lurve drama! Just don’t be going all Zoolander on us!

At the end of this section you will find a list of books and films to kick-start your own personal action/erotic hero film-fest; or at the very least have you studying up on the great seducers, from Errol Flynn to Bogart and Sinatra to name a but a few.

What’s all this got to do with flirting? Erm, only everything! It’s a reminder that you need to be savvier when it comes to your romantic lives. They do need to be tweaked, tightened and monitored in the same way that our careers and friendships are.

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