Pickup Women in Nightclubs: The Direct Game Guide to the Nightlife Scene (Player Mastermind) by Player Mastermind

Author:Player Mastermind [Mastermind, Player]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2016-05-17T00:00:00+00:00

7 DEALING WITH GROUPS

In all of the last chapter you may have noticed that I haven't mentioned groups at all in spite of the fact that a girl won't often have gone to the club on her own.

That's because they're not as relevant as men are tempted to think. They're slightly relevant in the early stages of a night when each group is a bit more secluded and private, but this all changes. In the environment of a loud bar or a nightclub with most people dancing to loud music, the whole 'group theory' issue goes mostly out the window.

Really, you should see that as an advantage. It means that you don't have to deal with a group of several people right off the bat anyway, because it's completely unreasonable and impractical to be expected to do so in the situation. Most clubs are loud enough inside that you can only really be heard easily by the person next to you unless you're basically bellowing over everyone near you, which would just be ridiculous for an extended period of time.

When you approach a girl of interest, she may well be with her group, but they can't hear the two of you when you're up close and talking, so you're basically just approaching her. Nine times out of ten, if the conversation continues anyone in her group will just leave you to it: they can see you're both happy and they're not really part of the conversation – they may even make the assumption that the two of you know each other already. Obviously, later on if you and the girl are staying together for a while as things progress you don't totally ignore these people - you'd introduce yourself and make some new friends in the situation too. But for the sake of the actual approach in the initial stages and what's going to go down between you and the girl, they really don't factor in much at all.

The only time when someone in a group may present a problem is in the event that you and the girl you approached mutually decide that you're going to go home with each other that night. In that case there may occasionally be a nuisance friend that wants to throw a spanner in the works. In that situation you have to continue to take leadership in the situation. Don't just be stood there watching it happen. Tell them clearly that you've both decided and tell her to swap numbers with you so that you can keep in contact if there's any problems or they need to know where each other are at in the morning, or any other reasonable suggestion.

If this won't do and the girl you're with is going to change her mind because her friend is causing a problem without articulating a suitable reason, you may as well leave the girl your number on the off chance that she and/or her friend might be more mature another day but ultimately save yourself some aggravation by walking away.

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