Tinder for Experts: How to stop losing hot matches, relying on cheesy lines, wasting time & getting nowhere by White Panda
Author:White Panda
Language: eng
Format: mobi
Published: 2014-10-24T16:00:00+00:00
STEP 2: The Fillers – Have a fun conversation
Fillers serve to hold a simple, yet stimulating conversation until she is warm enough for you to go for the “FB Close” (next step). This should be achieved within 7-15 exchanges including the openers. The conversation should remain superficial. Save the deeper rapport building for when you have her on Facebook (explained in next chapter). Keep her wanting more and do not act like you are taking the interaction too seriously.
Here you can start to be yourself, but this needs to be an optimal version. Ideally, you have momentum and are getting quick replies; however, this is not a must. You can space out fillers across medium time intervals, so long as she is consistently replying. You must respect the Sweetheart Principle, Conversational Value indicators and Temperature Theory. Even though you are finally in a proper conversation, warm her up gradually. This means, do not ask too much from her too quickly, or she risks cooling down or falling silent.
Here are some questions to fill the conversation, in gradual order of investment.
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