The Lies We Believe by Dr. Chris Thurman

Author:Dr. Chris Thurman
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Thomas Nelson
Published: 2017-05-31T16:00:00+00:00

Now, why all the fuss about the words have to? When we say the words have to, we have lost sight of the truth that we do everything out of choice. In other words, we have free will. We choose to do whatever we do. The bottom line to all this is critical if you want to be mentally and spiritually healthy: a have to attitude toward life makes you a bitter victim while a choose to attitude makes you a healthy victor.

You Always Have Choice

Alan was a classic example of how a have to mind-set can destroy you. He came to see me about the tremendous bitterness he felt concerning how he had to get married. He and Sandra had dated off and on throughout college. Toward the end of their senior year, Sandra became pregnant with their child. As much as Alan loved Sandra, he did not feel ready for marriage. Yet he married her anyway, carrying into the relationship busloads of resentment toward Sandra, as if his choice to marry her was all her fault. During one of our sessions, Alan expressed how he felt.

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