Living M/s; A Book for Masters, slaves, and Their Relationships

Author:Dan Williams & Dawn Williams [Williams, Dan]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Nazca Plains
Published: 2011-04-08T07:00:00+00:00

Slave Qualities

dawn says...

We’ve previously covered many qualities that we believe a slave should possess or seek to possess. I’d like to emphasize the following qualities:

Obedience: One important difference between a submissive and a slave is that a slave should reach the point of obeying her Master without question. The slave may want more information, but her first reaction should be to follow orders. Dan requires me to obey first and ask questions later, knowing that he is looking out for my best interest. Of course, the exception to this would occur when you truly don’t understand and you need further explanation. The question in your mind should not be whether you will follow the order but rather how you will accomplish the task.

Reliability: A slave must be reliable. A Master needs to know he can depend on his slave to do what needs to be done and to follow his orders. This knowledge creates trust in the relationship; trust that the slave places the relationship first yet, if anything happens to her Master, she can take care of herself.

Honesty: The power dynamic in an ownership relationship eliminates the need to play “games.” In a vanilla context, we are discouraged from asking for what we want (it’s seen as pushy and impolite); at the same time, we are equally pressured not to refuse someone else’s desires (even if we believe doing so would be against that person’s best interest or that of the relationship). Self-sacrifice is promoted as honorable.

In our relationship, my Master wants to know what I think and what I want. How can he make an informed decision if I’m not giving him the truth and the information he needs?

For me, this is very important in my M/s relationship. I NEED to be honest and to be held accountable. I don’t lie, I don’t fib, and I don’t lie by omission. Because of this, He trusts me. Being trusted is a core need of mine.

Loyalty/Dedication/Devotion: My loyalty, dedication and devotion to Dan were the result of the trust we had built between us. While trust is building, the slave should consciously choose to exhibit these qualities

Trustworthiness: A slave must be trustworthy. If the slave cannot be trusted, the relationship will never reach its potential depth.

Self-discipline: Most Masters want a strong slave, one who has self-discipline. If Master gives the slave a chore, reminders should not be necessary. If she is learning something new, she should be able to focus on the task itself, without having her hand held.

Respect: Once trust has been established, respect should follow automatically. Without respect, it will not be possible to serve completely, to be vulnerable, and to be dedicated to the relationship. In the absence of respect, resentment will appear, and the slow decay of the relationship will begin.

Communicative: A slave must be willing to communicate her needs, wants, and desires. Again, how can a Master make an informed decision relating to the slave if he’s not working with complete, correct, and honest information?

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