Marriage of Your Dreams, The: A Woman's Guide to Understanding Her Man by Johnson Rick

Author:Johnson, Rick [Johnson, Rick]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: REL012050, Husbands—Psychology, Man-woman relationships, FAM030000
ISBN: 9781441238849
Publisher: Baker Publishing Group
Published: 2012-10-01T00:00:00+00:00

REAL QUESTIONS FROM REAL WOMEN

Q: Visual is so important to a man, but is the visual that attracts them a worldly view or a godly view? I often find myself looking toward the world’s view of success to measure how my husband will respond to me and not asking him. What is or should be sexy, beautiful, and attractive to him?

A: Great question. Here’s the short answer—I don’t know. I do know that if a man has his core needs met (sexually, emotionally, psychologically, etc.) it trumps the visual aspects of his perspective. I suspect it is a combination of both. God created men with the desire to be visually excited by the female body, but our culture has distorted or perverted that desire into something defective and corrupted, entirely unrelated to God’s original plan. My advice—ask him what he thinks is sexy about you. Work on your strengths and forget about your perceived weaknesses. Don’t be ashamed of your body. God created it to excite your husband and it does.

Q: Does he desire me to fulfill his sexual fantasies?

A: He dreams passionately that you would even consider fulfilling his sexual fantasies, but he probably won’t risk rejection by asking.

Q: Do men wish we looked like super models?

A: No, absolutely not . . . except maybe on special occasions . . . alone with him.

Q: Is there ever a time men don’t want or think about sex?

A: No.

Q: Will we ever have enough sex to satisfy him?

A: Probably not.

Q: How is it so easy for him to be fighting mad one minute and ready for sex the next?

A: First, men are able to compartmentalize the various areas of their lives so that they do not overlap. Second, males equate sex with love and intimacy, so they consider sexual intercourse to be a bonding (make-up) experience. Third, anger (arguing) produces higher levels of testosterone and activates the adrenal glands, both of which stimulate higher levels of hormones that are also produced during sexual excitement. Besides that, there’s not much better than make-up sex.

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