Make Him BEG For Your Attention: 75 Communication Secrets for Captivating Men to Get the Love and Commitment You Deserve by Bruce Bryans

Author:Bruce Bryans [Bryans, Bruce]
Language: eng
Format: azw3
Publisher: UNKNOWN
Published: 2014-06-30T00:00:00+00:00

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Appeal to his desire to be a high-quality man.

A key communication technique used by high-ranking leaders is to impute the qualities that they would like their subordinates to display. What this means for you is that you can influence your man to act a certain way by appealing to his more noble motives. High-quality, reasonable men want to be admired by the woman they love and respected by others. If you imply to him that he’s a better man by taking a certain course of action, assuming that he subconsciously aspires to be a good man, there’s a good chance that he’ll follow through on your suggestion. For example, if your husband promised you (and the kids) that he’ll take the kids out to the park and instead he comes home and gets bit by the lazy-dad-bug and wants to relax in front of the TV, you can appeal to his nobler motives by saying, “Honey, remember you promised the kids a trip to the park this evening. I know you’re a man of your word and the kind of man that puts his family first. Besides, the kids love spending time with their one-and-only father.”

As a woman you may be thinking that he’ll surely see through this as some sort of manipulation. Honestly, even if he does see through it, as long as you’re sincere he’ll realize that you’re right. Your appealing to the “I want to be a great dad and a man of integrity” whispers that goes on in his head. Appealing to a man’s nobler motives is all about using non-forceful, persuasive imputations to get him to agree with you. Think of it like those cartoons that have the little angel on one shoulder and the little imp on the other. Use your feminine powers of persuasion to make the voice of the little angel on his shoulder much louder than the voice of the little imp. Impute the quality you need him to display in a graceful way, then walk away and let him arrive at his own conclusion. Trust me, this is a much better way to get him to be a better man than nagging him incessantly.

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