The Ins & Outs of Escorting by Lorenzana Ashly

Author:Lorenzana, Ashly [Lorenzana, Ashly]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Unknown
Published: 2015-12-17T16:00:00+00:00

Setting Selection Criteria for New Clients

Next, you should decide what your selection criteria for clients will be.

You can designate yourself as either newbie-friendly or require that all new clients have references from other providers and be established reviewers on an escort review board.

Choose whichever you are comfortable with, obviously.

I've noticed that many escorts also have age requirements. Usually they give preference to older gentlemen and don't see men younger than 30 or 35.

The reason for this is simple: that age range is more serious, less flaky and comes with less drama most of the time, including in my own experience.

You don't have to have age requirements, but it's something to think about since many escorts think this is an important distinction.

I was pretty shocked and appalled when I first found out that some escorts refuse to see men of certain races and ethnicities. This to me seems grossly unreasonable, and I've seen clients of pretty much every race under the sun and there has been no reason to treat any of them differently, in my experience.

You should always do what feels right to you though, my opinion isn't what matters when it comes to who you choose to see and who you don't.

On the topic of age differences, let's talk a little about the biggest differences between younger clients (18-29) and older clients (30+).

Younger vs. Older Clients

Younger clients have a tendency to get carried away more easily and more often than their older and more experienced counterparts.

This is why many escorts require their clients to be 30 or older.

It's no big secret that guys tend to mature emotionally much later than girls do and when you throw sex into the mix, hormones go haywire and things can quickly escalate into more drama than you signed up for.

Trust me, I've had plenty of it myself over the years with more than a few different clients who were mostly under thirty.

Younger guys are often bachelors and this naturally makes them intrigued by the thought of "dating" you or having a "real" romantic or intimate relationship with you.

They are available and they enjoy sex with you, so that kind of makes sense.

If they perceive you as also being available, they will probably try to pursue you and this is why it's important to be clear about boundaries and if you are not receptive to the idea of dating a client, make that abundantly clear right from the start.

This won't always totally deter them from trying to change your mind, but it does help to discourage them from setting unrealistic expectations or misreading your signals and then being disappointed when things don't turn out how they had hoped.

Always be consistent.

Don't tell a client you are taken and not currently interested in a relationship with anyone when they ask you one day and then flirt with them when you know they are interested the next.

This is a recipe for trouble and you shouldn't ask for it.

Also keep in mind that when emotions run high, people tend to do dumb things and lapses in good judgment are more likely and common.

Download

Copyright Disclaimer:
This site does not store any files on its server. We only index and link to content provided by other sites. Please contact the content providers to delete copyright contents if any and email us, we'll remove relevant links or contents immediately.