The Anatomy of a Player: A Relationship book for men and women by Markeyus Franks

Author:Markeyus Franks [Неизв.]
Language: eng
Format: epub, mobi
Published: 2014-07-02T23:00:00+00:00

Overcoming Our Emotions

Have you ever wondered why you chose to stay in a broken relationship? Have you ever wondered why you are still with your boyfriend even though he beats you? Have you ever wondered why you are still having sex with him after a big break up?

Our emotions are very powerful and can easily set our mood swings. But just as emotions are powerful, they can also be deceiving. Too many times, emotions lead to bad decisions, and ultimately end up hurting us. We all have feelings: whether we are happy, sad, or mad, we all experience different mood swings throughout our day. For example, you just broke up out of a three-year relationship, and it’s the third day; you already miss him and can’t wait to get on the phone and make up, forgetting why you broke up in the first place. This is a big no-no. Your emotions have gotten the best of you, and we must understand how our minds work. On any given day, a person can experience several different thoughts. Some of the thoughts that we experience throughout the day are relative to situations that are happening on that day, but surprisingly, most of our thoughts are not. Saying this, why should we base our mood swings on inadequate thoughts? Remember, our mind tells us something, whereas our emotions tell us something completely different. This is why what I say must be taken seriously, because any person can get caught up in their emotions. So every little piece of advice that I can give in this book can easily be overlooked with one altercation – that’s all it takes.

Too many people make decisions based on their emotions instead of what’s sensible. This is another example of selfishness. Men and women want it their way instead of seeing the big picture. You should give yourself time to think whether it’s your fault or not, and not jump the gun and do something stupid. It’s funny how our emotions can cause poor reasoning and irrational actions. Try to trust your unique gift to reason a situation correctly rather than prematurely act on your emotions. You make your best decisions after your emotions have settled down. So when you feel like calling or talking with him because you feel lonely and sad, you should consider that to be a red flag. Let your emotions out – its good to release them – but don’t act on them prematurely. If you control your emotions, you pretty much can control your life, because life is all about making emotional decisions. I’m not saying walk through life emotionless, because that’s impossible; all I’m saying is understand and overcome the deception of your emotions.

Now don’t get me wrong, some situations are more complicated than others, but we must all take into consideration that we all are individually unique and do not deserve to be mistreated on any level. It’s important that you recognize the power of your emotions and strive to overcome them by using logic over feelings.

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