The Enlightened Sex Manual by David Deida

Author:David Deida
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: Family & Relationships/Love & Romance
ISBN: 9781591798521
Publisher: Sounds True
Published: 2008-12-31T16:00:00+00:00

Vaginal or G-spot orgasms are deeper than clitoral orgasms. They take longer to occur, sometimes thirty or forty minutes. And they usually require stimulation of the G-spot, which may or may not happen with genital intercourse.

You will need to experiment with different sexual positions and different angles of the pelvis to find a way for the penis, finger, or dildo to come in contact with the right place in the vagina. Some women find that rear entry, or “doggie style,” is the best sexual position for achieving G-spot or vaginal orgasms. Other women prefer the front-to-front position, with the man’s penis angled in a way to hit the front wall of the vagina rather than slide past it without much contact.

What is the right place in the vagina to receive stimulation for a G-spot orgasm? That depends on the woman. Some women have a well-defined area—the “G-spot”—a few inches inside the vagina on the front or anterior wall. This area is sexually responsive in a unique way. The spongy tissue under this vaginal surface may become full with fluid as orgasm approaches. Some women feel like they have to urinate as the G-spot is stimulated. Some women actually ejaculate fluid from this area during the contractions of an orgasm.

Other women do not have a well-defined G-spot, but still enjoy deep vaginal orgasms, which are very different from clitoral orgasms. I am using the terms “G-spot orgasm” and “vaginal orgasm” to mean the same type of orgasm: more full than a clitoral orgasm, though, in general, not as profound as a cervical orgasm.

Whether or not you are a woman with a well-defined G-spot, your vaginal or G-spot orgasms will be more full, more emotional, slower, longer, and deeper than your clitoral orgasms. Your body and breath will open during a G-spot orgasm, rather than close down and become tense, as often occurs during a clitoral orgasm. Vaginal or G-spot orgasms involve your deep reception of pleasure and love into your open and surrendered body, heart, and breath, followed by waves of uninhibited emotional and physical unfolding, whereas clitoral orgasms often involve a “clamping down” in short and intense pleasure.

Because of the deep opening that takes place in G-spot or vaginal orgasms, they require a greater degree of trust and communion than do clitoral orgasms. Most women can achieve clitoral orgasms through manual masturbation, using a vibrator, or being with a lover who knows how to stimulate the clitoral region with finger, tongue, or penis. But vaginal orgasms typically occur only with a partner a woman really trusts and with whom she is willing to open herself in deep reception and surrendered unfolding. G-spot or vaginal orgasms are as much about blissful emotional reception, openness, and surrender as they are about physical ecstasy.

A woman will have difficulty experiencing G-spot or vaginal orgasms if she isn’t relaxed and trusting with her sexual partner. And even then, for some women the G-spot area is very sensitive, even painful in response to touch. This can be a good sign, however, for it reveals the potential for responsiveness.

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