Pucker Up by Tristan Taormino

Author:Tristan Taormino
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: HarperCollins

Traditional Butt Fucking

I want to stress that anal pleasure comes in many different forms, from licking and external stimulation, to penetration with fingers or toys. Anal sex should not be equated only with his cock in your ass. However, that said, if his cock in your ass is the desired goal, here are some tips to get you on the right track. (Pay attention, girls, you can change the pronouns and use many of these techniques on his ass, too.)

Start with plenty of foreplay—work her clit, lick her pussy, play with her breasts, and get her as excited as possible. The more turned on she is, the more engorged her genitals will be. When everything is wet and swollen, it’s also relaxed and more receptive to penetration. Play with her butt cheeks—squeeze them, stroke them, maybe even spank them a little. Spread some lube on her anal opening and the perineum; stimulate the external area to get her focused on feeling pleasure in her ass. When you begin to penetrate her with one well-lubed finger, go deliciously slowly. Work her clit with your mouth or your finger or a vibrator while your finger is in her ass, or guide her hand between her legs for self-stimulation. Remember, clitoral stimulation will not only help relax her, it will also make anal penetration feel better. Some women tighten their sphincter muscles when their clits are being stimulated, having the reverse effect—she’ll let you know if the stimulation is helping her open up or if she’s clamping around your finger instead.

When you first get inside her, just past the sphincter muscles, just go up to the first knuckle and stay there. Let her ass get used to the feeling of your finger. One trick I like to use is where I gently press in what I call the “North-South-East-West” motion: up, down, and side to side with a subtle amount of movement and pressure. As you proceed farther inside, remember to angle toward the G-spot; you can even try rubbing the front wall of the rectum for more G-spot stimulation. Let her be the one to tell you when she wants more fingers. Slowly withdraw your finger, add more lube, then slide two fingers inside gently. Again, begin with the pad-of-the-finger trick, and let her get used to the sensation of more fingers in her ass.

Once she’s more relaxed and used to the feeling, you can start to move in and out. Remember that the ass is more sensitive, so proceed more gently than you may be used to when finger-fucking her vagina. On the road toward putting your cock in her ass, you can proceed a few different ways:

Continue with finger penetration, adding fingers two, three, and maybe four; or

After two fingers, switch to a slim dildo which you move in and out of her ass; or

Slide a well-lubricated butt plug slowly inside her ass. Once it is all the way in, play with it a little bit by tapping on the end of it or moving it slightly.

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