HOW TO GIVE A TANTRIC MASSAGE! (SEXUAL SECRETS Book 3) by Cassandra Lorius

Author:Cassandra Lorius [Lorius, Cassandra]
Language: eng
Format: mobi
Published: 2014-07-29T16:00:00+00:00

Tantric Massage for Men

Tantric massage for men helps to awaken the senses and develop responsiveness to sensual touch in other areas away from the genitals.

There is a tendency for men to focus on physical strength or prowess during intercourse at the expense of emotional sensitivity, and a playful exploration of pleasure. The build up towards orgasm and ejacualtion all too often gets in the way of fully enjoying sensual play in the moment (rather than disappearing into fantasy). For many men it’s a challenge to lie back and receive, without doing anything, and to find a place of meditative stillness inside. Mindfulness can help cultivate this capacity.

Women, this is your opportunity to show your partner the pleasures of surrender to loving touch without feeling you should be stimulating him the way he might prefer to stimulate himself during masturbation. Explore different styles of stroking - including his genitals - which might include firmer strokes than you would want for yourself. Remember to keep using long, connecting strokes that integrate his genitals with the rest of his body, especially when he is getting excited.

Prepare the room with heating, pleasant smells, relaxing instrumental music and a comfortable padding on a bed or suitable surface….put a protective sheet or towel down to protect the linen and cushions from oil. You’ll also need a couple of latex gloves if he wishes to explore his P-spot.

You can cover the lower parts of your partner’s body if necessary to keep him warm and comfortable while you are working on his back. Focus on what you are doing and try to become absorbed in honouring your man’s body and in giving sensory rather than erotic pleasure. Ask him for feedback about the strokes you are using and check out your pressure and the pace of your rubbing. Typically women touch men in a gentle sensitive style that they prefer, while men use heavier strokes because that’s what they prefer. In the fleshy areas like shoulders and buttocks - and even his perineum - see if he prefers firm pressure with your whole hand, your knuckles, or your whole forearm.

Start with a back massage, especially if your partner is often tense or anxious. 15 minutes or so is a good period to work on his back… using a variety of strokes with with your thumb and forefingers working upwards from his buttocks on either side of the spine – do not press on the bony spinal processes. Start with light stroking strokes and firmer circular movements. Long firm pressure with thumbs and forefingers, or the palms of your hands feels good. Try the heel of your hand, or your knuckles - as long as you aren’t poking him - using circling strokes around the shoulder, and in the centre of the shoulder blades - usually you can feel where the tense, knotted muscles are.

Loosen up his shoulders by working the muscles around his shoulder blades and in the centre. Include his arms, with long firm strokes down his arms and into his hands.

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