Unfuck Your Cunnilingus by Faith G. Harper

Author:Faith G. Harper [Harper, Faith G.]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Microcosm Publishing LLC
Published: 2022-02-22T11:03:00+00:00

The Varieties of WAP

Not all fluids released during sex are the same thing, especially if you have a vulva. The term vaginal discharge is usually thought of as some sign of infection, but it really relates to any fluid that comes out of the vagina. For example, it’s entirely normal to discharge up to a teaspoon of mucus-like discharge daily. As long as it is white or clear and is odorless it’s totally fine. It’s mucus, water, and shedding cells, nbd. The signs that there may be a health issue like a bacterial infection, yeast infection, or trichomoniasis (which is an STI). Pay attention to:

• Color changes (greenish, yellowish, brownish that isn’t menses)

• Increase in volume along with other symptoms like itching

• Texture changes (gets way thinner or thicker)

• Smell (fishy, metallic, generally not pleasant)

Because hormones fluctuate throughout the month for individuals that are ovulating, menstruating, or pregnant your partner may notice that they are wetter closer to ovulation and drier during menses because of those estrogen changes. This is less the case if you are on a hormonal birth control or your body no longer cycles in this way due to surgery, menopause, etc.

When we talk about “getting wet” we are talking about the cervical fluid that the body releases for penetrative intercourse. It’s caused by the increased genital blood flow which creates pressure for transudate fluid to push up to the surface of the vaginal walls. Besides hormonal changes (including birth control or hormone therapy), other medications can affect this process, as can mental health issues, general stress, and lack of foreplay.

It’s also super important to remember what we discussed earlier in the book, which is that physical and psychological arousal are not the same thing. Lack of wetness doesn’t necessarily mean not interested, and wetness doesn’t necessarily mean interested. It’s still alllllll about partner communication.

Ok, cool. There is also a difference between vulva ejaculate and squirting from the urethra. If you have seen big fluid releases from a partner or in erotic performance videos and the like it was probably squirting. The fluid released in squirting is at best guess (once again no surprise that we don’t really know for sure) is a mix of water, some urine, and maybe a little ejaculate. You will see some articles that say “meh, it’s all just urine” which could freak out anyone (unless golden showers are your thing) but as of me writing this, that doesn’t seem to be the case. One study looked at not just what was emitted but what was going on with the bladder before and after squirting and it looks like even someone with an empty bladder before sexitimes had a bladder that filled up quickly during sexitimes and squirted that fluid. So this speaks to the probability that the body is drawing fluid up for release the way the vaginal walls do.

If it still concerns you, no biggie. Use a barrier method like a sex dam and focus your attention on the clitoral glans which is above the urethra if you are concerned about accidental injesting.

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