The Many Shades of BDSM by B.J. Dempsey

Author:B.J. Dempsey [Dempsey, B. J.]
Language: eng
Format: epub, mobi, pdf
ISBN: 978-1-4405-5253-3
Publisher: F+W Media
Published: 2012-11-12T05:00:00+00:00

Kinky Tip

Be willing to try variety when it comes to scents. Alternate the scents in your romantic environment, trying a different one each night for a week. Note the results in order to determine which scents you do and don’t find erotic.

When evaluating the effectiveness of scent, don’t rely only on your nose. Yes, it is great if something seems pleasing to your olfactory organs. But scents often trigger chemical reactions or subtle effects that we may not even be consciously aware of. So you may need to be more observant in order to detect the less obvious—yet very powerful—effects of certain scents. Take note of any sudden, unexpected rushes of feelings or intense reactions that may be unusual and can possibly be traced back to the new scent(s) you have added to

the mix.

When it comes to scents, don’t be afraid to consider new and different options. You might be surprised at what types of scents get some people excited. One recent study found that the smell of black licorice tended to get men aroused. So be creative!

If both of you are addicted to chocolate, try burning some chocolate-scented candles in your love nest. Or create your own makeshift perfume by placing a dish of melted chocolate near a slowly turning fan. Perhaps the two of you have great memories of your recent X-rated romp on a tropical beach. In that case, a simple whiff of suntan lotion might be all it takes to get things rolling. Many women joke that the smell of broiling steak is a major turn-on for their men. Go with whatever works.

Other ideas include:

Dabbing perfume or essential oils on various body parts, especially erogenous zones

Pouring essential oils in your bath water to help you enjoy a relaxing soak before your sex play, or when you will be enjoying a sexy bath for two

Using oils for full-body massages, or even just for foot rubs

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