The Just Girl Project Book of Astrology by Ilana Harkavy & Brianna Rauchman

Author:Ilana Harkavy & Brianna Rauchman [Harkavy, Ilana & Rauchman, Brianna]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Sasquatch Books
Published: 2022-11-15T00:00:00+00:00

Relationships are kind of like algebra. Have you ever looked at X and been like…Y?

Here’s our philosophy: relationships have five phases.

The Honeymoon Phase: Time to merge, y’all! Yes, we covered this already, but let’s sum it up! The first stage of a relationship is the initial BOOM: a passionate, sizzling romance that consumes you, also known as infatuation. You’re insatiable, spending your days naked in the bedroom, enjoying your bubble, boundaries forgotten. This emotional stage is not rational, but it’s fun. And if you enjoy all those pleasant chemicals—dopamine, oxytocin, endorphins—you’ll adore this addictive phase…while it lasts.

The Reality Phase: Time to wake up from that delightful dream, because reality is here and she’s a real b*tch. Now you’re becoming WAY more aware of your SO and who they really are. It’s time to figure out if you wanna move forward with this relationship long term and deepen your connection. This stage comes and goes more than Pisces with their ex, so be prepared.

The Fight or Flight Phase: Because we’re all different and kind of annoying TBH, sh*t’s bound to hit the fan. Power struggles are a very real and natural part of any entanglement. Your partner may start to irritate you, you’ll wonder whether they’re perfect enough (stop overthinking, Virgo). At this point, you’re going to have to flex those conflict management skills you learned in fourth grade. Face your relationship problems head-on and TALK. IT. OUT. Once you deal, you’ll learn the lessons you need to be the best for each other. Pro tip: love languages come in handy here.

The Nesting Phase: Okay, so now you can finally relax. Your SO and you have decided that this relationship is worth building on. This is also known as the comfortable phase. Unlike the Fight or Flight Phase, where you secretly have a little anxiety about whether you want to continue, this phase is where you’ve sort of decided this is something you want to stick out. And yeah, this phase may seem boring for some *Sorry, Aries*, but it’s REALLY not. In fact, it’s essential for a long-term match. We ALL need those nights spent lounging on the couch. And if you need a tutorial, Taurus is available.

The True Love Phase: Well, you did it! Graduation day has arrived. Your relationship is at its healthiest and you’re feeling this spiritual, unconditional love. You’re finally starting to accept your partner’s imperfections *well not you, Cap, but that’s cool* and feel more secure in your relationship. You appreciate your partner for who they are and what they bring into your life. And you feel like you’ve met your match. How precious.

But remember this: these phases are recurrent, NOT sequential. Just because you reach Phase 5, doesn’t mean you won’t revisit Phase 1. Every stage gets explored and re-explored at some point or another. Relationships change because life, circumstances, and people change! So it’s totally normal for our astro couples to experience some ups and downs. And yes, you two still have A

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