How to Flirt with Men: The Complete Dating Guide for Women Who Want to Seduce a Man, Make Him Chase You, and Keep Your Man Interested by Queen Sherry

Author:Queen, Sherry
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2019-10-27T00:00:00+00:00

The Eyes

The eyes have been called the window to the soul. With it, you can see through anyone. Flirting without using the eyes is like sending signals randomly without a specific target. When you make eye contact, your signal has a direction and is aimed at a target.

How to Flirt with Your Eyes

To begin with, you need eyes to see who you want to flirt with. If what you see is pleasant to you and you want to call attention to yourself, start with making eye contact. Men generally miss the first flirting sign a woman gives. So you need to look at a man two or three times before he gets the message. But it goes beyond just looking or making eye contact. If you are in a crowded place, there’s a high chance that your eyes will meet with a lot of people more than once. That is not flirting. To make it flirtatious, look at him until his gaze catches. Wait for one or two seconds before looking away. Stealing a look at a man you are interested in may make him feel he is being spied on instead of turning him on. Make sure your eyes meet for a few seconds before looking away. He will want to be sure, so wait for a few more minutes before making another eye contact, but this time accompany it with a smile. If you are flirting with someone you’ve never met before, avoid giving them a wink. That could portray you as being cheap or tactless. Reserve the wink for a man you have met a couple of times and with whom you would want to be more than just friends.

Using your eyes this way goes to the heart of flirting. Flirting is an attraction routine that thrives on the promise-withdraw method of arousing interest. With your eyes, you give someone your attention (the promise of interest), and then you look away (withdraw the promise), but then repeat the promise-withdraw dance again. This creates the sensation of tension-release- tension in the mind of your target. If he wasn’t sure of your first eye contact, the second time coupled with a warm smile could only mean one thing: interest.

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