ANALYTICAL CONFUSION: MY TRANSPARENT PERSPECTIVE ON LOVE DATING AND RELATIONSHIPS by AFI KINGDOM

Author:AFI KINGDOM [KINGDOM, AFI]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2020-10-06T20:00:00+00:00

Saturday Night

The Power of Planning

P lanning Life. We all know life doesn't always go as planned. Does that mean that you should avoid planning? No, whatever the case you should still have goals and things in life and relationships that you're working towards. I people watch and observe relationships as well. Now of course it is much easier to evaluate a situation when your personal feelings are not involved. You can point out all of the red flags and signs that there may be as if you were a traffic director. Even still, I'm aware of people in love married or in committed relationships that have no goals, at least in a partnership sense. It's kind of like, He loves her, she loves him, we're faithful, split the bills and hang out on the weekends.

I feel when you're lucky enough to find someone that you're willing to give half your time to and share half of your life with, that you should be planning or at a minimum discussing your future. I'm not saying that you both should have the same or similar goals in life (although that's a plus) but you guys should have goals as far as progression in your relationship. This goes far from how many kids you want to have with each other, and what city you may want to move to. This partnership should work as a team. Even if you may have similar individual goals, you may not know how your partner may be able to assist you through interest, support, and resources that can make your goals more attainable and life easier!

It's always really dope to have your own hobbies as an individual. However I see so many couples that do their own thing. Not having any interest in each other's goals and passions. Let me even go deeper to say in a lot of cases it may not even be that interesting but even worse people sometimes aren't even aware of them.

I enjoy painting for example , I don't need my friends ( friends are a relationship to) to support my art work to encourage me to continue or perfect my craft, but a lot of them aren't even aware of the fact that I do! I'm saying that to say this, sometimes having talks and showing interest in things other than yourself, may open up many new doors in your relationships. This goes along with planning, the more you talk and put things on the table the more you learn about your partner. This can do wonders for you guys!!

My circle is always supportive of me. That is goals, interest, even pushing me to try new things. So I always see it in her because she is such a good mother to her kids that she should maybe work with children in some form or capacity. Now she would always immediately shut down the idea for many reasons, one being that she doesn't want or have any interest in other people's kids.

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