Wisdom of Souls by Ann Clark

Author:Ann Clark
Language: eng
Format: epub, pdf
Tags: CVR01042019;wisdom of souls;life between lives;life after death;reincarnation;newton institute;michael newton;what happens after death;past lives;how to uncover your past lives;the wisdom of souls;CVR09302019
Publisher: Llewellyn Worldwide, LTD.
Published: 2019-11-15T16:37:36+00:00

Dysfunctional Families

Many of us have parents who are challenging. Parents can be abusive, neglectful, or argumentative. When they treat us badly, we can feel like victims. We wonder, “Why don’t I have parents like my friend’s?” If we dwell on this too long, we build resentment and self-pity, emotions that add to our misery.

When we are children, few of us realize that we chose our parents. Before we are born, our soul self, plans for our life, and our parents are an important part of this plan. Our soul selves don’t choose parents who will make us feel loved and happy unless such parents are part of the plan. We mostly choose parents who will challenge us in some way, teaching us what we need to learn.

Parents can teach us by many means, but the most persuasive way is by example. We can learn from the love, care, and honesty they demonstrate, but we can also learn from negative behavior. A dysfunctional parent acting violently or neglectfully can be a powerful lesson for how not to behave.

Sarina, age forty-one, has a difficult family of origin.

My mother, father, sister, and paternal grandmother all have personality disorders and I am, and have always been, their scapegoat. It has been the challenge of my life to be their daughter, sister, and granddaughter.

Despite her family, Sarina has managed well in life. She hasn’t wasted their example of negative behavior either.

Fortunately, I have been gifted with psychological “normalcy” and a great deal of intuition and resiliency, which is partially my nature and partially learned from my experiences of life with them. I am thankful for that.

Ironically, their negative and abusive behaviors have taught me to value and look for the opposite in healthy relationships with others.

As an adult I have been able to make good decisions for myself and my life. I am in a happy marriage, raising sweet, loving, and confident children, and doing very well in my chosen profession.

Although she has overcome many obstacles, recently Sarina is more frustrated and drained than ever with her family’s behavioral patterns.

The dysfunction in my family of origin persists, and I find that coping with the slings and arrows of their disorders is becoming more difficult as I age. Now I realize that there will be no changing on their part. I need to seek more support to fortify my spirit so that I can change the way I respond to them.

During the session, Sarina’s guide appears, explaining why she has chosen this challenging family.

Her purpose is to ascend. She chose these parents for this purpose.

Her mother gives just enough love, just enough light, for Sarina to grow. With that love and light, can Sarina stay the path? She chose to live with this difficulty as a test of endurance for her own awareness. She is testing herself.

She can draw back from the family. Find her purpose elsewhere. Nature is a good healer. There are other things for her. She is partially aware of what those are—but we will lead her as she goes, through her dreams and feelings from good works.

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