What if This Were Enough? by Heather Havrilesky
Author:Heather Havrilesky [Havrilesky, Heather]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: Writing, Humour, Philosophy, Poetry
ISBN: 9780385542883
Goodreads: 37969722
Publisher: Doubleday Books
Published: 2018-10-02T00:00:00+00:00
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The operating system that guides Billions reflects the culmination of years of cultural programming that either savors the gray area of any moral puzzle or else sidesteps the issue of morality altogether. But TV comedies are in many ways even more depraved than dramas. Where Woody Allen may have taken us down the path of the lazy and entitled, he tended to treat his charactersâ indiscretions as the outgrowth of any sophisticated adult maleâs natural desires, thereby sidestepping moral dilemmas the second they arose. (âOf course weâd all like to sleep with teenagers instead of our wives,â he suggested with a wink, as if this admission made him adorably raffish and not a criminal.) Seinfeldâs morality went deeper, acknowledging that being an intelligent, entitled New Yorker doesnât exempt you from being judged as repugnant. The show demonstrated over and over again that selfish, lazy people can do actual, concrete harm, even if they donât necessarily lose sleep over the consequences of their actions. (Remember when Georgeâs fiancé died from licking the cheap envelopes he bought for their wedding invitations?)
Most of our âgolden ageâ comedies, from Curb Your Enthusiasm to Veep to the works of Judd Apatow, follow in this Seinfeldian tradition. The characters are self-serving and pathetic and unscrupulous; thatâs what makes them funny. In dramedies like Weeds, Transparent, Fleabag, and Big Little Lies, selfish, myopic, pathetic behaviors are treated as the most entertaining aspects of privileged people. Indeed television has been marinating in blatant, unpunished selfishness for long enough now, in our scripted programming but also in our nightly news, that itâs as though weâre slipping back into Woody Allen territory. The shores of our morality recede, but the tide of forgiveness rises to meet it. In such a world, of course youâd sleep with your best friendâs ex-boyfriend. Stealing from your family, selling drugs, cheating on your husbandâthese things âjust happen,â requiring little explanation or apology. We all make mistakes.
American exceptionalism, which always included some talk of bravery and honor but also privileged winners over losers and haves over have-nots, may have finally curdled into this craven survivalist brutality. TV reflects our cultureâs fundamentalist roots leavened by an almost surreal disentanglement from our long-held standards of behavior. Itâs not just a void of ethics that weâre witnessing, though; itâs the celebration of that void. Many of our most popular narratives sidestep unwieldy talk of values, a seemingly outmoded term, in favor of a recurring struggle to dominate, or else to avoid domination. Brutality, mercilessness, lack of concern for principlesâthese are painted as prerequisites. In a 2017 interview with The Guardian, British documentary filmmaker Louis Theroux remarked on the U.S. president, âTrump saw through so much. For all his awfulness, I canât but help admire his shamelessness, in an odd way. Or maybe not admire, but be fascinated by it and maybe envy it. In a shame culture he seems to have figured out that if you refuse to be shamed, it gives you enormous power.
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