The Warrior Heart Practice by HeatherAsh Amara

Author:HeatherAsh Amara
Language: eng
Format: epub, pdf
Publisher: St. Martin's Publishing Group

The Wisdom of Not Knowing

When we live in the Story Chamber, our Little Soul is in charge, and its entire focus is on understanding, isolation, and control. But when we begin to work with Intent, we are reconnecting with our Big Soul, whose domains are possibility, connection, and mystery.

In order for you to stop Little Soul from grabbing your intent and trying to sabotage it, you must let it go.

If you try to control, direct, or even understand how to manifest your intent, your Little Soul will come in with judgment or victimization. It will either judge you for not manifesting your intent “properly” or it will feel overwhelmed and freaked out that things are not going “right.”

Instead, keep surrendering up how it is supposed to happen. The path of the warrior is 100 percent commitment combined with 100 percent faith. Don’t allow your actions to come from worry or fear (Little Soul). Let them come from your intuition and knowing (Big Soul).

How do you stay in the most effective relationship with your intent? The key is not to think about your intent but to feel it in your bones. Keep moving from how you want a situation to turn out to how you want to feel in the situation.

Knowing your intent doesn’t mean you’re going to be able to change other people. You don’t have that power. People might change as you move forward with a new intent, but that can’t be your focus. Your focus has to be on how you are going to change and allowing other people to be who they are. A Warrior of the Heart does not caretake or try to fix others. A Warrior of the Heart respects other people’s decisions and choices and knows that each individual is the keeper of their own intent.

Pauline: Ending a Pattern in Relationships

Several years ago, I went through a difficult divorce. I hadn’t realized how emotionally abusive my relationship was until I finally ended it. I spent a couple of years healing and learning about what old family agreements I was carrying that caused me to stay in such a challenging and unhealthy relationship. Through reading HeatherAsh’s books and going to workshops, I slowly learned how to stop caretaking others and to begin letting go of a very old belief that I was only safe if I was being nice and agreeable to everyone.

When I first started dating, I wasn’t totally clear what I wanted. My focus was completely on who I wanted them not to be. (Not narcissistic, not verbally abusive, not in another relationship.) Every time I dated someone who showed a tiny bit of kindness or maturity, I’d think, This must be it!!! without really knowing anything about them. I would try to get them to commit quickly, which backfired. I started to hate dating, feeling that the “good” women were already taken.

When we did the Warrior Heart practice in Sedona, I finally understood that I was dating in reaction to my story, rather than being clear with what I actually wanted.

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