Technical Virgin by Hayley DiMarco

Author:Hayley DiMarco
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: ebook, book
Publisher: Baker Publishing Group
Published: 2006-07-01T04:00:00+00:00

Girls make a mistake when they think that sex will keep a guy around. Because it bonds her to the guy, she thinks it bonds him to her. But that’s not the case. A guy can much more easily move on to the next hottie. He can compartmentalize—put your memory into a box and forget it forever. And whether you want to accept it or not, us girls just aren’t the same. When a guy gets sex, he gets what he wants: sex. When a girl gives sex, she gives it to get what she wants: intimacy, love, attachment. Trouble is, those don’t always go along with sex or sex play.

If you still don’t believe me, think about this. Who has more of a problem with pornography, guys or girls? I’m talking about the kind with naked people of the opposite sex, this time. Guys do, of course. Many, many of them are addicted to the stuff. They just love watching naked women. It’s a craving for them. But very few girls get their kicks from looking at a bunch of naked guys prancing around. That’s because we are more turned on by the romantic than by the physical. We might enjoy the physical, but it isn’t our ultimate goal like it is for the guy.

So what happens when you give a guy what he wants (outside of marriage)? What happens in the relationship? He wins. He gets the goal of his game, which is sex. And just like when you play a game and win, you either want to start over and see if you can win again, or you want to go on to a new game. Trouble is, if that game was too easy to win, he isn’t likely to want to keep at it too much longer because he prefers a challenge. And that explains why guys can move on so easily to the next girl. Sex achieved, game over, move on to the next game.

But maybe you’ve been dating a guy for a long time and having sex and he hasn’t left. Let’s talk about that scenario. If you are in high school, the relationship you are in right now statistically has little chance of lasting to marriage. That means you are going to break up. And what happens when you do? What does your PR campaign look like to the rest of the world? How do you think other guys think of you now that you’ve been sexually active with your boyfriend for a long time? Do you think that makes you more appealing or more used up? Do you think a guy thinks highly of a girl who gave herself to a guy for so long?

The truth is, it kind of makes your sex life a done deal. It’s like that guy used you all up and didn’t leave much for the next guy. And even if that doesn’t bother you, let me tell you that the breakup will. Breaking up with someone you’ve been sexually intimate with might be the hardest thing you will ever do.

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